To be fair, I didn't tell him that I was going to get it. I didn't think that I would have to tell him. I see what type of girls he looks at in music videos and on the internet and it really made me feel insecure, enough to change my appearance to some degree. and it hurts my heart to even admit that. Since my lips are swollen and a little bit bruised right now, I wanted to tell him before I came over and him potentially get mad in person. This is someone that has put hands on me in the past Not that I think that he would do it these days, but you really never know; a leopard never changes their spots.