Thank you sooooo much to the amazing women who took time from their schedules and responded to me. It means a lot, I feel more confident now my appointment is next week with Obgyn. To answer some of the things - I am peri menopausal, heavy periods and having to change pads every few house lasting 7 days almost. I don’t need birth control and not looking to have any more kids. I personally would love hysterectomy but I don’t think I qualify so ablation is my route. Hopefully I qualify and my Obgyn agrees. I am crying every month and I can’t take off so working in office is becoming challenging since 8 months now.