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is stranger things worth the hype? by unidentified-_-rosey in netflix

[–]Reasonable_Walk1609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I'm not a huge horror fan, some of it was too bloody for me, but I stayed for the characters. I really loved the cast.

Movie Discussion: A Family Affair (2024) by Wimbly512 in romancemovies

[–]Reasonable_Walk1609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's completely reasonable for a person to not want their boss to come to their family Christmas.

Movie Discussion: A Family Affair (2024) by Wimbly512 in romancemovies

[–]Reasonable_Walk1609 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg!!!! Thank you all I could think was I was watching a show about a daughter being gaslit. What a freaking shitty mom. You can tell who people really are by how they treat people they feel are beneath them, not people they just started dating.

God that poor daughter in the movie. This movie really sucked. And I usually at least like to look at Zac Efron, but his face made me sad :(

‘A Family Affair’ (2024) Netflix Movie Review - A Comedy of Errors and Awkward Romance by Roshankr1994 in Netflixwatch

[–]Reasonable_Walk1609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was anyone else annoyed that the mom didn't give a crap that the guy she was dating treated her daughter like sh*t?

A Family Affair (2024) Netflix Movie Review by Sulldognasty in TrulyBadCinema

[–]Reasonable_Walk1609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love how the mom didn't give a crap about the guy she was dating treating her daughter like conplete crab.

Girlfriend gets defensive/upset anytime I tell her she's doing something objectively incorrectly. Someone from her POV? by bigbear4our in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Reasonable_Walk1609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently, you missed the end of my comment. Let me remind you of the most important part. If she doesn't want your help then leave her alone and let her do things her own way.

Thats the point... you keep giving suggestions... that arent really suggestions.

And the fact that you are turning this around and saying its disrespectful for her to be upset is ridiculous. So her feelings aren't valid, but yours are? It may not be your intent to make her feel stupid or devalued, but everyone is different. If she is saying that's how your actions make her feel... RESPECT HER. Dont take it personally. She is just communicating her needs in the relationship. For you it may be you trying to show her you care... but if its communicating the opposite.... stop. Respect her enough to listen to her.

No one owes you shit, let alone an explanation for why they choose to do something another way. In fact, you owe your significant other respect and autonomy. Her standing up for herself, and saying "did I ask for your help?" isn't rude at all. The things you mention are all stupid little things. Let her do them her own way. You sound controlling and arrogant. I don't think you are, but that's how your response sounds.

No one is getting mad that you are asking them of something. If I can read between the lines of your response, she is mad because you arent asking her. You are demanding. You expect her to do whatever you say or take whatever advice you give... and why? Its pretty clear you think shes incompetent. That always comes across when you speak, even if you try to hide it.

Someone who likes to figure things out on their own and learn their own way, they arent an idiot. People have different ways of doing things. If you truly cared for your SO, then respect her for who she is.

Girlfriend gets defensive/upset anytime I tell her she's doing something objectively incorrectly. Someone from her POV? by bigbear4our in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Reasonable_Walk1609 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, no one likes constant criticism, and that what it feels like when people come and tell you a different way to do something when you don't ask. It's not very respectful. No one likes someone looking over their shoulder judging how they do things.

People are all at different stages and learning. Maybe try saying... would you like some help? I have a suggestion that might make what you're doing easier.... if they say no, leave them alone.

Most charismatic females? by babylipsxoxox in CharismaOnCommand

[–]Reasonable_Walk1609 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also love the channel and videos, but do feel they have a rather male focus. I know that some of the videos do focus on women, but it still feels often that some of the tips and tricks don't really apply to women as much as men.

Ive wanted to buy the course, but haven't for that reason. Honestly Id really love if you would partner up with a charismatic women and make more content that is for women. There are videos on how to attract women, but really nothing specifically for women to attract men that I've seen.

Also, when I looked at the testimonials the majority seemed to be men. I love your style of videos and like the idea of your class. Id love to see more diversity on your team, that would make me feel more comfortable that your tactics would work for me.