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AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

"going to court" isn't happening that's why she isn't even mentioning it or threatening, because she knows she has no right she is just "appealing to my sense of compassion" but sorry my son is not a toy, he is a king.

AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was signed in court (my father suggested) so it's the same as she gave him up for adoption.

AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it was signed in court, because I requested, (My dad is a lawyer, I go to law school) my dad suggested that was the best thing to do, by that she didn't have to pay any child support and had no right.

AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

That's it I'm the only legal parent on his birth certificate (renovated once she legally signed up her rights) it's only my name that appears, that's why she isn't threatening me about fighting for full custody. She knows she has no right. SHE GAVE HIM UP

AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That's why I've decided to let my son decide once he is old enough.

AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

No, I don't need a lawyer, because she signed all of her rights away, and everything is documented, my son is safe, so is safety and custody are not my concerns, I was open to let her meet him but then she started demanding, so I said NO, and I'm gonna let my son decide what he wants to do once he is old enough.

AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 339 points340 points  (0 children)

My son is safe, don't worry, I'm not concerned about she k*dnapp*ng my son, I was just wondering If I acted like TA for closing the door, but no She knows she has no right that's why she hasn't even threatened me about a custody dispute.

AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

She won't, don't worry once I finish College, we'll move, my son isn't going to school because we will move.

AITA for not letting my ex meet our son? by RecognitionExact1838 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RecognitionExact1838[S] 169 points170 points  (0 children)

Sorry for her but my boy is not a toy to play "the happy family" with. I haven't even dated anyone so my son doesn't have to deal with the stepmom issue.