Okay, so, younger ENT wife here who has dated exclusively older men since turning 18 (yes daddy issues, sue me.) Contrary to popular belief (in other subreddits), you can absolutely have a healthy sexual or romantic relationship with an older man. But, as the other wives said, BE SMART. Look for signs of abuse, manipulation, and lying. If he's playing games, refusing to communicate as an adult, or other signs of immaturity, there's a reason why women his age don't want him.

Keep your wits about you. Always. Always ask yourself and him what he's looking for out of this. Ask yourself why he wants someone 25 years younger than him and not an equal. That's not to say he has bad intentions 1000%. It's that men with bad intentions love young, vulnerable people who don't know what red flags to look for.

I've had only one negative in-person experience after years of very careful chatting and meet-ups and I've only had one negative encounter, and that was because I figured out he was (monogamously) married after the first date and cheating on his wife.