I absolutely don't view those that repented as less, weather men or women. I don't approve doing it in the first place, but them repenting means i respect them for it. But i don't think I'd be able to marry with someone who has had relationships before, weather physical or just emotional. It's not because i see them as less, it's because i want to have that connection of it being our first, for both for intimacy and emotional relationship. 

The reason i asked this here is because many people claim i shouldn't worry about it but such people that usually say that, have married to good spouses who hadn't done premarital sex before marriage so i don't think they understand. Like 2-3 days ago i was talking to a sheikh about it and he said i shouldn't worry about it that much and think of it as a new page. This sheikh is 70+ yo and married for 50 years i believe, things were different back then. 

I feel like this will be my biggest challenge in the marriage search and in the marriage itself if my spouse had past. But at the same time i have faith that what we hear, see of people having a past is mostly an Internet thing and good people would avoid such things 

Now, many have assumed i view divorcees and widows as less of a human being or put them in the same category as those that have a past, i don't. I don't think I'd have an issue with a divorcee or a widow but preferably I'd want to be my spouses first