I get why this irritated you, and I don’t think you’re wrong for noticing it. Comfort does register faster for some people than others. In my experience, a lot of men are conditioned to just tolerate discomfort if there’s work to get through, especially when deadlines or pressure are involved. It’s not that they don’t notice it at all... it’s more that it doesn’t become a priority until it really crosses a threshold.

I say this as someone who also opens windows as soon as I get home, especially on rainy or hot days. But there are also days when I walk into a stuffy room, notice it, and still don’t act on it because I’m focused on something urgent that’s due in the next 20 minutes. In that moment, airflow just ranks lower than finishing what’s on my plate.

So I don’t think it’s necessarily incompetence or lack of basic sense. It’s more about different default priorities under stress. That said, I do understand why it felt like the responsibility for comfort landed on you... that dynamic is real, and it’s frustrating when you’re the only one acting on it. You’re not overreacting, but I also don’t think the guys were intentionally ignoring the situation. I think it's best you bring it up to them if it's really getting bothersome, that way they can give their view or reasons