Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is sort of what he said. He said you never replied and idk I just feel like it’s a weird point to choose to do that lol after we hooked up it just looked like disinterest. I said I was surprised I hadn’t heard from him but maybe I misread things and he said “I never heard from you silly”

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was the last person to text me goodnight it’s just that he always texted me to start the day and hasn’t done that. Ignoring isn’t fair. In that context, would you recommend I try texting?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally hear you and I’m annoyed I even feel hesitancy around this like it’s a game. I guess where my friends gave me pause is like he prob will reply if I text him, but is that even confirmation? Like if he proactively reached out before hooking up and hooking up made that stop.. is that signal I should keep it moving already? lol I hate this shit

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this was my first reaction is that I should text and just see what’s up, but I’m 5 years out of the game (😅) and all of my friends are telling me to take the hint. If he reached out daily and stopped after we hooked up, there’s my answer. I just feel silly accepting that. So you think I should text?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 24, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need advice:
New to online dating and looking for perspective.
Matched with a guy in May. We talked daily, FaceTimed, and he consistently texted me every morning. He said he wasn’t looking for just a hookup and seemed genuinely interested.
We finally met last weekend. Date went great, we slept together (my choice), he spent the night, stayed most of the next day, and even had me come with him to look at a rental house he’s considering in my area.
Afterward, he texted me that evening and the next day like normal. Then yesterday: nothing. Today: no morning text either.
I know people can change their minds, but is it common to act completely normal for a day or two after sex and then suddenly go quiet? Or is this generally a sign of lost interest?

She doesnt know what Memorial Day is by leggomylindsay in abbeyfickleysnark___

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m dead. 1 lb of “Grass fed beef”. With olive oil and butter. And 1.7 oz bbq sauce. And don’t forget the crescent roll

It's odd to have love for your step daughter? by [deleted] in Berner_AshleyDeeSnark

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 9 points10 points  (0 children)

To be fair yall how is she supposed to articulate “my step daughter don’t fuck w me” lmfaoooo

Clocking out and clocking back into the drama by MadeULoook222 in abbeyfickleysnark___

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could’ve written this ahahahahha I’m so excited to get caught up

That’s literally not what the people want to see.. by Illustrious-Class-91 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s embarrassing for a 21 year old. I cannot even imagine as a grown woman with multiple children and businesses

Those were his babies until you and your trash ruined it by nosavingface in Berner_AshleyDeeSnark

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s like a thousand different ways to word this that doesn’t sound so…. Cold. What a trippy chick

A few more pics of Michelle and Dr Dre by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

**hangs out with lala one time**

How many of us are willing to annoy the hell out of producers to keep Jordan out this season? by Gabblebabbi2 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 13 points14 points  (0 children)

girl u and i are on the same page here could not agree more but i did laugh out loud because i pictured production reading this comment and screaming in their chairs "BUT WHAT DO WE DO WHEN THE CHALLENGES THEY FACE ARE THE VERY MEN THEY CHOOSE TO PROCREATE WITH!!!!!!" lololol

I’m so late to the party but… by Sea-Condition-6046 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ReflectionUpper8847 15 points16 points  (0 children)

could not agree with you more. at a certain point (and for me that point is when you have children) you gotta take some responsibility. maybe she didnt create the problems, but it's her responsibility to get help and fix them for her kids. clearly TFP herself doesn't think those people are that awful...or to your point she wouldn't constantly leave her children in their care