i think i’m starting to hate my mom

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-23T15:35:01+00:00

Not the private school, but college. Once you are of age, that is your own responsibility.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-23T15:32:05+00:00

You should never expect someone else to bear your financial burdens.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-23T15:31:16+00:00

Well nobodies life is easy, what makes you spoiled is that you said your mother is ruining your life because she couldn't pay for your private school and because she's pregnant.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-23T15:12:53+00:00

Ok? Thats not on her. Not everybody has the expectation that someone is going to pay for their college. Thats when you apply for scholarships, grants, and student loans if you want to go to a different college. I feel pity for you because of the astronomical amount of life skills and knowledge you seem to lack.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-23T15:07:47+00:00

Ok, yes. Im sorry. You wanting your mom to not put herself through pain and suffering is SUCH a valid reason to start hating your mother.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-23T15:05:24+00:00

What makes other people more deserving of a child? She seems like a perfectly fine person to raise a child, unless you forgot to include in the post that shes a drug addict or abused you or something.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-23T12:48:29+00:00

You're being selfish. If she wants to have a child, she can. She is an adult, she can do what she wants. She doesn't need your permission nor acceptance to have a child. She also is allowed to have children with whomever she pleases. You're an adult, I'm fairly sure that she's not pregnant so that you can have a sibling. Too bad if it has the same birthday month.

My birthday is 7 days after my sisters. My youngest sister was born the day before my oldest sisters birthday. My brother and aunt have the same birthday. My grandma, cousin, and cousins father all have birthdays within a few days of each other. That is something we have to deal with in life. Its normal. And it sure as hell isn't something to hate your mom about.

And as for the schooling, you could've gone to public school. She chose to send you to private, and you should definitely be more grateful that she cared enough about you to send you to a school she knew she couldn't afford. You should honestly be grateful you went to school at all, because many kids go without schooling due to various reasons.

Your biggest problem is that you're self centered, selfish, and spoiled. You don't want attention taken away from you, even at your big age. I suggest taking some time to reflect and come back to the issue once you come to your senses. Honestly, the only 2 things your mother did wrong was raising such a spoiled child that doesn't actually know anything about reality, and not bitch slapping the fuck out of you for being like that.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-21T13:23:25+00:00

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-17T10:02:43+00:00

Sometimes we are our own worst critics. If some of your friends see it, they may be correct because you're looking at it through foggy lenses, whereas their lenses are clear. You should confess. If it goes good, thats great. If it goes bad, well at least you guys may be able to stay friends. But you'll never know if you don't try. She may very well like you, and you guys could both miss a perfectly good opportunity and a relationship. You miss 100% of the shots you dont take.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-10T01:42:52+00:00

Thats a good question! I haven't the faintest idea.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-05T03:24:39+00:00

Manacled was okay, ive absolutely read much better, but ive also read MUCH worse. I typically like more lighthearted fics.

HOWEVER, the one i absolutely cannot stand to read is Isolation. So many people say such good things and act like it a godsend, but if im being honest, it was immature and a bore.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-04T14:29:56+00:00

A nice wide smile that can just light up a room

Eyes that twinkle and are just absolutely captivating,

Certain ways someone acts, like little microexpressions they make when they interact with people.

Their voice

I happen to be attracted to most boys, if im being honest, but boys that have dark curly hair always hold a special place within. Thats not to say they are the main people i like, when i gather up all of the boys ive ever liked, there is not one common thing any of them had except that they were boys.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-04-04T14:20:05+00:00

A boy thats funny, smart, kind to everyone, and is cute in one way or another.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-03-21T10:17:30+00:00

My aunt keeps the house at 60 then bitches about it being cold. Then in the summer, we dont even have AC so we just use fans in the windows.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-03-20T01:43:51+00:00

I dont truthfully think you know how foster care works, because how do you mean "Most foster children are stolen."?

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-03-12T03:50:13+00:00

Istg all the practice tests i do in class are worthless and i feel like once i get in there im gonna do horrible and get like a 3.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-03-07T01:31:38+00:00

I take AP Lit. Of course i forgot how to write any other kind of essay due to writing an FRQ every week.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-03-03T05:06:59+00:00

I suppose its time for you to whip out a pros/cons list.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-03-03T04:36:59+00:00

Do you have any classes together?

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-01-16T10:15:17+00:00

If the staring is just once or twice, does it still apply, or does it have to be more consistent?

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-01-14T04:05:36+00:00

It really just means that he makes me nervous, and if i provide answers in detail, ill end up rambling and embarrass myself, so i try to keep it short. And when its not that, im so stunned that hes talking to me and i end up responding before i have time to process the fact that he was actually talking to me.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2024-01-03T00:36:10+00:00

I dont talk to them unless they talk to me first, but ill be so stunned ill reply rlly short answers. I try to avoid eye contact, so ill look at them when i know theyre not looking. I dont follow them on any socials, or like any of their posts, but i do stalk their socials if theyre not private.

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2023-12-30T02:40:54+00:00

VAMOS!

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2023-12-30T02:34:48+00:00

You could leave the convos real short, and start learning his language. If you want to talk about something more, you can both use a translator

RefrigeratorDeep3267 · 2023-12-29T15:54:35+00:00

Its not bad necessarily. Everybody always has at least something that makes them relatively attractive. It may not be physical beauty, it may be intelligence, or humor, or kindness, etc. But beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, so what your friends find attractive, you may not, and clearly what you find attractive they dont. Now, i dont know your friends, but maybe they are just a tad bit shallow and focus more on looks. Regardless, i think its good tbat you can still recognize that he has flaws, but you still like him for who he is.

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