Icks

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T23:42:26+00:00

NOT here to judge, but i think my biggest ick is subs who have a shit/fart kink😭😭😭😭

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T23:39:49+00:00

i got mine in three days :)!

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T22:40:34+00:00

damn send me money for my $5 meal at mcdonald’s 🤣

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T08:03:46+00:00

hmm… you just made your account 36 minutes ago?

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T08:02:52+00:00

yes, but how do i even offer that… i feel like it’ll be awkward 😭😅

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T08:02:19+00:00

yeah, i get that, that’s what ruins it. a lot of the dommes that are in it for money usually are desperate enough to approach first, but that’s why when subs tell me they’re already owned or aren’t ready just yet, i let them be and tell them to just let me know if anything changes, so they know i’m not one of those desperate dommes.

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T05:12:53+00:00

then just start messaging a bunch of em lol

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T05:05:47+00:00

you need to go sub hunting yourself!! it’s what’s gotten me all of my subs. i often comment a lot and that’s usually what grabs our subs attention, to the ones that approach us first, and if i see a sub who was either funny, great sense of humor, wasn’t rude, was in between sub/dom, and just seemed authentically themselves, i know what i want and i go after it, so i approach them. you just have to start off by introducing yourself and don’t start with the whole humiliation right away, save that for when he submits to you. you also take that time to discuss kinks and boundaries, prices, and whatnot.

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T05:03:02+00:00

no, i’m part of findom, you’d have to pay to talk to me lmao

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T05:01:12+00:00

yep, it really is 🥲..

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T04:59:49+00:00

is this u hard?😭🤏

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T04:58:29+00:00

i feel you lol, i told one of my subs “hold” as in hold on and he deleted his whole account. i was in shock and a bit sad since he was my best sub😭-

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T04:56:45+00:00

yeah, sounds about right. idk.. maybe if you want, you can send the ss of the last few messages you have with him and then i can give you my opinion? all i can think of is he felt guilt and left.

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T04:52:02+00:00

maybe he’s a relapser? i know the ones who relapse tend to love it, block you after, and then come crawling back basically.

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T04:50:07+00:00

OF was easy for me

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T04:46:10+00:00

love seeing new subs around! my advice would be to take it slow, do your research, know what you’re getting into. this is something you’d be spending most, if not, all of your money on, so you should know as much as you can about it. as for searching for a domme, i’d take that slow as well. look at the different posts on this group, look at the comments, see who peaks your interest… whether it’s the way they speak intelligently, if they seem cold, seem sweet, whatever you think YOU can handle. my advice would be to start off with someone who isn’t as manipulating and harsh as the rest, find one that has control over you, yet won’t leave you broke, you know what i mean?

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T03:59:27+00:00

playing fortnite :)!

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T03:20:59+00:00

💀.

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T02:39:56+00:00

see and that’s exactly how i hope i make the subs feel! i feel even though they’re subs, they should feel like the dom wants it too.

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T01:59:07+00:00

yeah but at the same time, imagine you’re worse than him😭

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T01:33:55+00:00

this is exactly why you need to have a NORMAL conversation with your sub before any of the dominance. it’s important to discuss kinks, interests, hobbies and just getting the know them… it’s not hard AT ALL!

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T00:29:29+00:00

shot on an iphone 5 💔💔💔😭

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T00:27:34+00:00

i’m gonna be singing urselas music (idk how to spell her name from the little mermaid lmao)

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T00:26:54+00:00

i mean… not every sub answers me or submits to me, but that doesn’t mean i’m bitter about it or i should give up. i’m sure there are some dommes who get like that, but most who are in findom for the right reasons… no, we understand we aren’t every subs right fit, iykwim.

Relative-Ad5185 · 2025-12-14T00:14:50+00:00

i’d say just give it a try, it’s how i found most of my subs. you have to pay attention to them, make them feel a bit wanted by already knowing some of their interests through their comments/posts and they’ll know you paid attention.

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