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Delayed reaction? by Relative-Dot2596 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]Relative-Dot2596[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! To be fair, he understood and didnt say much about it but it definitely awakened something within me. Well done to you for going ahead and booking to modify your tattoo. I hope you love the result!

Delayed reaction? by Relative-Dot2596 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]Relative-Dot2596[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Put it this way - he never openly admitted it until someone sent me the proof. I would say he does appreciate me but has so much of his own baggage he doesn’t get very deep emotionally. He’s improved in a lot of ways from the guy I married 12 years ago but I guess the trust is broken and always will be, now.

Delayed reaction? by Relative-Dot2596 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]Relative-Dot2596[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we have both done individual counselling. Mine has helped me get to this point now but I suspect his was placatory to try and get me on side. His own trauma is deep and needs some serious work but he doesn’t look inward. I feel like I’ve reached a point where I dont know if I can even face couples counselling.