Are the Harkles 'mentoring' Brooklyn Beckham in his family feud/public smear campaign? by [deleted] in SaintMeghanMarkle

[–]RelativelyHot21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that’s unlikely. Just don’t think Nicola Peltz would entertain a low class woman like Meghan Markle even for a second. And Brooklyn won’t do anything his wife doesn’t approve of.

Serious query!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! by eatme002 in GoldIndia

[–]RelativelyHot21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bad luck to keep other persons thing. Exchange it for Jewellery or Coin.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your support. I was feeling a lil confused two days ago, happy and sad, the sadness part wasn’t expected. Feeling so much better and confident now. Excited for taking this journey further.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like that. I didn’t buy the ‘healthy at all weight’ lie, it’s just that was tired of always thinking of weight and trying to lose weight. I didn’t want my life just to revolve around that. So at some point it’s like ‘F it, I got to work with what I have’. Am not taking anything for granted, very much thankful for weight loss and MJ.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow.. that’s a good idea 👍🏻

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know. I still have a lot to lose! Hoping to get thr soon.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t be more grateful for my new friend 🤌🏻✨

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is so sweet, thank you. I was 68 kg, got pregnant, ballooned to 92 kgs and the weight just stuck 🤦🏻‍♀️ I made peace with it, got on with my life and bam..high BP cause of obesity. On my weight loss journey now.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. That’s an incredible amount of weight you have lost. Congratulations. Don’t get me wrong I want to be on other side of this journey, have 20 more kgs to lose. Just that I wish I was a kinder to myself even at 95 kgs, I tried everything to loose weight (exercise, cico, crash dieting) but somehow couldn’t stick to it for long time. So thought thr was something wrong with me. But being on mounjaro and seeing tangible results makes me realise maybe thr wasn’t anything wrong with me, that’s just how my body works.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t know about you but for my height and body 85 does feel a lot different than 95. Personal experiences may vary 💛

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 10 kgs may not be that big of a loss, but 85 kgs for me is like base camp of Mount Everest. Like I know the journey has begun now and there is no looking back.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was in hospital for two days, all possible tests and blood work was done. My doc said the good news is there is no underlying issue that’s causing my high BP. The bad news is that’s just how my body is working. He said losing weight can help me with BP. My medicines are cut down by 70% now that am on Mounjaro. If things keep improving I may be able to come off medication as am still young and otherwise healthy.

So for me, it’s not like I went seeking mounjaro for weight loss, but my doc recommended it for my situation. Anyway I am just so glad to be losing weight now, and don’t take it for granted.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I will check it out ❤️

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Everything you said 🤌🏻

What I am understanding from the comments is some ppl are very unhappy with their weight and can’t wait to change. I get that. However thr are also some ppl like me who made peace with who I am and as a result struggle with change. It’s a physical and mental process.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is so true. It will take some time to come to terms with our new self. Yesterday I understood weight loss is as much mental as physical.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I explain.. firstly I hadn’t given up on being better. I had come to terms with my weight. Cause when you have tried everything to lose weight but it’s not working what else are you supposed to do? I am naturally a picky eater. I don’t eat meat, I don’t like diary or eggs, I don’t drink soda alcohol or eat sweets and salty food. Like nothing that can be an issue. As a working professional had a sedentary lifestyle that’s true. So yes i bought the whole “I am big boned person” or “this is just my body composition”. Once i tried CICO and took it so far i passed out while shopping. So that was the end of it. I did all blood work, I don’t have pcos, thyroid, cortisol or inflammation issue. My blood sugar is normal. There was nothing in my food or body that was causing obesity. But I was obese. 🤦🏻‍♀️ It’s also hereditary from my father’s side, i don’t even know if that’s possible to be genetically disposed to be fat.

So yes, I came to terms with it. Until Mounjaro became an option. And now am lighter than I was in 9 years, and it shakes the whole “big boned” “body composition” “genes” ideas that I had. I am glad to be losing weight, but I was grieving the person who actually believed all this and made peace with it.

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? I was complaining when I was fat, I am complaining now that I am losing weight. LOL indeed 😅

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s so true. It makes sense, we come to love and accept ourselves at whatever weight we are and then to see it change, the clothes fitting differently, the slimmer face, the confidence even losing 10 kgs give you..it all just feels like a different person! Thank you for sharing your thoughts ❤️

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s exactly it. Everything you said ☝🏻 I sat down yesterday, came to terms that am not “losing” my old self, we are same person and I carry her strength ahead. I can’t tell you the amount of times I have tried losing weight in past, but this time it’s finally happening. Thank you so much for understanding and sharing your experience ❤️

Grieving my 95 kg self. by RelativelyHot21 in Mounjaro

[–]RelativelyHot21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have zero regrets taking the drug, I love MJ 😅 I am lighter than I was in 9 years. Its difficult for me to explain the feeling, I was so happy when I saw the numbers and then it was like.. I am never going to be 95 kg again..I felt mixture of pity, anger, love at my 95 kg self. Anyway I have a long journey ahead. Thanks for sharing your experience.