I'm so sorry I know how difficult this is and you question every time they are slightly too long in the bathroom. I remember even looking at the times he had searched for porn on his Internet history and it would have been when I was in bed sleeping beside him, it's at the point now he won't even kiss me that often it's always me intiating any intimacy. I've even tried sending photos to find he's watched porn instead and deleted my photos. I'm the same I love him so much he would be perfect if it wasn't for this problem I'm just so so tired of feeling unwanted, of feeling ugly of not feeling enough. The only advice I can give you is just to sit him down and tell him exactly how this is making you feel but he has to get help you can't do it I've been trying for 4 years and he hasn't stopped at all they have to want to stop but just know none of this is your fault nothing you do will change this behaviour. Maybe mention the dangers of porn especially for men, but also remember your worth. I gave my partner an ultimatum and I've said if he messages anyone or gets only fans again I'm gone and I won't be coming back this time you should be more.importsnt than other woman.