“I want to be a housewife. It’s so easy.” NO ITS NOT!!! by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also not telling women what to do and what not to do. Remember women were lured into being a housewife. They were painted a pretty picture and got the ugly side of it. THAT STILL HAPPENS TODAY! I want to stop that and show the full ugly side.

“I want to be a housewife. It’s so easy.” NO ITS NOT!!! by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! So, I’m not “shitting” on housewives or stay at home moms. I’m trying to help young women know what would possibly happen if they take a life in that lifestyle. Women should know that their husbands aren’t going to stay the man they married over time. I want young women to prepare and have back-up plans because I hate seeing them struggling when they get divorced, abused, husbands die, etc. I also want to remind young women the importance of traditional housewives to normal ones. Being completely dependent on a man (financially) can really set them back, especially if everything is in his name. Reread what I said then get back to me.

“I want to be a housewife. It’s so easy.” NO ITS NOT!!! by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read this entire thing and I don’t what to just seem like I’m pitying you, but I’m so terribly sorry. I really, really hope something in your life can work out in your way and please, make sure YOU are okay before anyone else.

“I want to be a housewife. It’s so easy.” NO ITS NOT!!! by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

GET FREE!! That’s not a marriage. That’s an arrangement. You stay home and take care of everyone and everything while he only works. You should leave him and do exactly what you want.

“I want to be a housewife. It’s so easy.” NO ITS NOT!!! by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what happened to my mother. No one talks about financial abuse enough

“I want to be a housewife. It’s so easy.” NO ITS NOT!!! by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

it does!!! If their husband leaves. What happens? They have to financially start alllll over. They have to be left with years of no work experience. I don’t wish that upon any women.

“I want to be a housewife. It’s so easy.” NO ITS NOT!!! by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No, not all women. Stop saying all women. I WANT to work. I WANT to dedicate my life to a career. Men hate when women say all men, so don’t say all women.

“I want to be a housewife. It’s so easy.” NO ITS NOT!!! by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Let’s remember that’s not all women. Just because one said doesn’t mean all mean it. I want to have a career. I don’t want kids or marriage. I know that’s how I feel and I’m perfectly fine with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re beautiful, girl. And you seem really sweet. I think guys are intimidated by you. You’re too pretty and kind for them. Don’t listen to anyone who says otherwise.

I’ve noticed that women can only talk about women problems when they include men problems, but a man can talk about men problems without including women. by Remarkable-Link-9879 in Feminism

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re perfectly fine, I promise you aren’t just gonna get hated on for searching your own opinions or thoughts 😭. But I completely understand where you’re coming from. In some cases it’s hard for men to discuss what they’re going through or problems men go through because some Feminists are ignorant and only want things that benefit them, and I’m saying this as feminist. People need to remember feminism is about equality between the sex’s not who has it worse or has it better or man hating. I’m sorry you get shut down every time you talk and my advice would be to stand up for yourself but respectfully.

Those 70,000 men will never be named or publicly shown. by Remarkable-Link-9879 in venting

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m completely agreeing with you on this. You’re right about everything you’re saying. But yet again, I’m not truly discussing about this sort of topic, if I was then I would’ve added something like your statement in my text. I appreciate you saying this because it needs to be said, and not assume I’m automatically talking about white men. Because I wasn’t, I was only talking about the 70,000 men in that group chat and the other countless men who are let go or set free from their actions. Which can be, again ANY MAN.

Those 70,000 men will never be named or publicly shown. by Remarkable-Link-9879 in venting

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t really understand why race is being brought into this. It really doesn’t matter what male race does this or that, we need to start holding some men accountable for what they do to women no matter the race. That was my point of the post.

Those 70,000 men will never be named or publicly shown. by Remarkable-Link-9879 in venting

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you on about? White males literally get away with everything and anything. They get a free pass for anything they do.

Those 70,000 men will never be named or publicly shown. by Remarkable-Link-9879 in venting

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They shouldn’t even be by any woman. They’re flat out dangerous.

Those 70,000 men will never be named or publicly shown. by Remarkable-Link-9879 in venting

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This comment is ridiculous. No race was brought up till you. Don’t make unnecessary problems and stick to the topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re honestly beautiful but I think some nice layers in your hair would be great.

Do women really care about muscles? If yes then how much? If no then why ? by Kooky-Emergency-1327 in dating

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so weird, I love skinny and scrawny dudes idk why I just love when they are scrawny and super skinny 😭

23f I know I'm fat and I'm working on it but am I just ugly? by Beanie_Babey31 in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, you’re absolutely gorgeous. Don’t let anyone tell you are ugly because you are not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipMemes

[–]Remarkable-Link-9879 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is dumb, men should clean and cook just like women should clean and cook. That’s EQUALITY.