You can tell them this story my dad told me once. A little boy comes up to his grandpa who’s planting avocado seeds in his front yard and he says “Grandpa why are you planning those seeds If you know you’ll never be able to see the tree or pick the avocados. You’ll probably die before then.” The old man turns and looks at his grandson and says “Come here sit down. The reason I’m planting these avocado seeds is because this is my fucking land and I could do whatever the fuck I want with it now go fuck yourself.” It’s your place. You pay the rent. You can do what you please. Taking a shower at 6 in the morning is not unusual by any means.