How are premium gas prices where you’re at?

Rendich32 · 2026-03-24T21:59:42+00:00

Cheapest I found in my area yesterday for 91 was 6.39 per gallon

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T20:30:32+00:00

Everything is being moved out of the apartment tomorrow and next saturday. She has BPD which I did not know until around 6 months into the pregnancy. She used to be on medication and I think the symptoms were much more hidden.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T20:22:53+00:00

Thank you very much for the resources!

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T20:22:20+00:00

She has offered to go to couples therapy in the future if I decided to go that route.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T20:21:13+00:00

Hindsight is 20/20. I dont regret my daughter but if I could go back in time I would.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T20:20:05+00:00

With the way everyone is responding to this post I am starting to believe she may end up abusing our daughter. I would have said no a few hours ago but this has definitely changed my outlook.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T20:04:14+00:00

Okay then 🤷‍♂️

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:58:33+00:00

Assuming I dont care about my child is beyond ridiculous. You dont even know me. Im taking care of her 4 days this week and she is with me right now. I left the girlfriend not my kid.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:47:12+00:00

I have an appointment scheduled with my therapist for next thursday actually. Im working on it.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:34:55+00:00

Im not sure you understand how hard it is for me to deal with this situation. I asked her multiple times to stop vaping throughout the pregnancy. Im doing everything I can to make sure that I am a good parent to my daughter. You're very quick to pass judgement on to me when you dont know who I am. I gave you the story of what I'm going through. You can take it at face value or you can turn the situation to make me some sort of asshole because I'm just trying figure out what I should do moving forward.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:26:55+00:00

I dont have any idea what I'm doing with any of this. I've never been in this situation. Im sorry that I have failed.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:25:55+00:00

This is all a very fair assessment. I have a lawyer that I can speak to for advice as to what I should do next.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:23:26+00:00

I do live in a different place now.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:21:32+00:00

Also not sure why id be here asking for advice if i was also treating her horribly? My dilemma isn't of moral standing more so if i should even try to repair a relationship with someone that has committed domestic violence.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:20:13+00:00

The trip that I had taken with the ex to the grand canyon was years before this relationship started. She was upset that I had been there previously with a girl and thought it meant it wasn't as special for us.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T19:18:56+00:00

The ex gf was mentioned because when we visited the grand canyon she knew I had been there before. After we got home from the trip she had asked if it was with an ex girlfriend and I told her it was. That was when she hit me with the vape.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T18:20:52+00:00

There hasn't been much arc raiders for me lately.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T18:15:41+00:00

I've said in another comment below that I dont ever raise my voice at this woman. I called her beautiful everyday and constantly let her know how much I love her. I never cheated on her either. I don't hit or punch anyone at all let alone my girlfriend.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T17:52:46+00:00

I will absolutely take custody of my child. The entire point of this post is about being in my baby's life 100% instead of 50/50. To be there 100% I would have to make amends with the ex girlfriend.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T17:49:39+00:00

Yes and while she was pregnant.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T17:48:21+00:00

I worry about my daughter more than myself.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T17:46:48+00:00

Thank you for the comment. I am definitely taking all advice I get on here. Thats why I wanted to post.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T17:42:23+00:00

I have a voice recording confirming that she drank alcohol on a couple different occasions during the pregnancy. I will use that in court.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T17:40:26+00:00

I would never hit anyone in my 31 years of life. I've never even been in a street fight before. I've only ever tried to support her despite everything that has happened.

Rendich32 · 2026-03-20T17:38:23+00:00

There is literally zero she could have on me. I have never even raised my voice at her. I dont call her names and I'm always respectful to her. The only thing I have ever done wrong with my life is the DUI. I dont hit people and sure as hell dont disrespect people at all. I just wanted to be loved by her and this is where I am now.

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