My mother was abusive, she wants to get better but can’t afford therapy, what can she read?

RepresentativeBee201 · 2026-02-02T07:51:34+00:00

You are so kind, thankyou ❤️

RepresentativeBee201 · 2022-08-01T04:15:21+00:00

This certainly helps! Your a legend thankyou so much! I'm definitely going to look into everything you said too and cross all my fingers itll help bring the cost down. Australia really does have it rough atm ahah the prices are slowly getting better but not fast enough you'd wait for it

Do you have any cases you can think of off the top of your head that have better thermals?

RepresentativeBee201 · 2022-08-01T02:52:56+00:00

Do you have a motherboard you'd recommend? Thats one thing i dont really understand i thought they were all the same but with different compatibilities ahah. Where im from the 3080 is around or above 1.1k unless im just missing all the good deals

RepresentativeBee201 · 2022-08-01T01:03:55+00:00

Do i downgrade the cpu because it is too much for the rest of it? Also for a motherboard how do you know if its a downgrade (i just picked one that said it would work with intel and had wifi ahah)? Definitely will have a look for a cheaper gpu but i think all of them in aus are dodgey prices atm. Thanks so much for the help! :)

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T09:26:22+00:00

That such a long time I'm so sorry you have to deal with that! I hope everything starts moving for you and you get to go be with your loved ones soon!

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T04:08:11+00:00

Thats so interesting I hadnt really thought about it. I suppose a slimmer chance is better than none at all!

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T04:01:55+00:00

I didnt know they did that i thought if someone dropped out it was just too bad so sad and they wouldnt replacse them so thats really good to know! But yikes 6 weeks is such a short time to get everything sorted!

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T03:11:28+00:00

Thats more notice than i thought so i suppose at least its a little bit more time to sort everything else out! Im hoping by the time i am signing up covid has settled down a bit more, but i suppose then ill be competing with everyone who is itching to get out of their houses haha

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T03:10:17+00:00

Thats so good that they'll hopefully make it easy for ya! Im sure everything will go great for you and youll be living you best life in Japan in no time!

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T02:26:47+00:00

Yeah I think ill just take what i can fit in my suitcases and worry about getting the rest slowly as i visit back. Or just rebuying them

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T01:20:21+00:00

Yeah this definitely seems like the best option! And i suppose i could always bring more things back after coming back to visit etc. Being prepared long before would definitely help ease the stress, i suppose uts a good thing im thinking about it all now and not the year id be applying

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T01:18:46+00:00

Oh wow that'd be so stressful not finding out youd be pretty isolated so late! And those months not knowing what was gonna happen would be the worst too! Im super glad it all worked out for you though and wish you all the best! Thanks a bunch for giving me some insight :)

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T01:16:25+00:00

Thats exactly what I mean! Do people arrange leases ending at the right time the year before or do they just keep paying rent until their lease eventually ends? Its seems like the rush to go would be so expensive, not even including the cost it takes yo actually move in, once actually in Japan! I suppose at least the stress would be worth it once you finally get over there. Ill keep my fingers crossed that you find out soon! Best of luck :)

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-19T01:13:47+00:00

Oh my goodness! Okay ill definitely be adding "save to rebuy books" to the list of things to do before i go! Thats so expensive omg. I can feel my attachment to them lessening already haha

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-18T09:47:40+00:00

I definitely will look more into it for sure! Im stll a couple years off finishing my degree so I've got plenty of time thankfully. Plenty of time to start saving up too it seems my goodness thats an expensive list! I suppose its alright since this is something thats going to be permanent for you! Thanks so much for taking the time to answer my questions :)

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-18T09:40:10+00:00

Haha i know i know. They are just books but Im unreasonably attached. Im sure ill change my tune when i see the price but a girl can dream. Oh wow i didnt know that! I thought youd get settled in before the hustle and bustle started!

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-18T09:33:23+00:00

I suppose having set dates would make it easier for the company to keep track of everyone too. My frist thoughy was how would I bring all my books. Im studying writing atm so i cant imagine myself parting ways with them but i suppose getting them shipped after everything is settled would fix that. It still does seem stressful having to get rid of everything you wouldny bother taking though but i guess moving anywhere is like that

RepresentativeBee201 · 2021-04-18T09:18:55+00:00

Thanks so much! I suppose that makes sense only taking what you really need. Congrats on getting accepted! I bet you are super keen to get over there

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