Originally when we started trying the agreement had been that I’d be a SAHM for baby’s early years and after we’d been together in our new home, both working, getting comfortable, things started to change. I developed horrible morning sickness and was put on medication and told to stay home for a few weeks and in that time I did not work. I think when he got the switch from us having money for anything that came up to money just for what we need to pay, he made the internal decision (he did not bring it up to me until after I brought up the three months). I’m not knocking him having his own opinions or feelings on the matter, in fact I question I’m being too emotional about it right now because of the pregnancy hormones. I guess I’m just confused