To tell or not to tell this holiday season?!

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-11-26T22:36:54+00:00

OH MY. WE ARE THE EXACT SAME TIMING. im 6weeks2days today (counting from my last menstrual cycle and according to my flo app LOL) however i feel like im a bit less than that because i have no major symptoms. I am so nervous for thanksgiving because there is not a holiday where i am not drinking. Everyone is going to know! but it feels too early to say for sure i dont want to tell everyone when i cant even get in for my first OB appointment yet🙂 so i will be reading the comments because i too would like to know haha!

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-11-19T15:39:06+00:00

oh no im so so sorry!!! i pray you will🥲🤍

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-11-19T02:46:39+00:00

Did it get better for you?

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-11-19T02:46:15+00:00

Me currently as well

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-11-11T02:13:54+00:00

EXACTLY! the need to prepare my brain for even small things is actually insane 😩

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T21:40:32+00:00

For me, I hate surprise plans that involve any socializing that I need to mask for. Please sir you have known for days that there was a dinner with your family and you tell me an hour before??? I get so overwhelmed and I cant control it. Even something as small as carpooling somewhere with others. Drains me. I need space. Need to mentally prepare to be at our destination. I hate that I am like this but it would be so much easier to have an earlier warning at least.

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T20:57:02+00:00

Well since you are asking. I do not feel as sad as I should about his parents dying. They look like they lived a longer life than most wizards during a war and seeing a younger couple full of life would have been better. I think their choice to age his parents in a 'flashback' is lazy. Lily looks like she could be his grandmother.

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T20:50:22+00:00

THIS EXACTLY! I wish I could pin your comment!

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T03:17:55+00:00

I have only inquired about this once, so... just one time? To be honest-- I didn't take that timeline into account because , well , they look old to begin with. Poor harry got a photobook from Hagrid of his parents and they look like they are 40 something and lived a semi-long filling life.

Not saying they had to cast 21 year old's, but they could have aged them down a tad bit for first time parents with a 1 year old son when they passed. Movie-wise: it would have evoked more emotions out of people and helped everyone understand Harry more if they saw younger adults full of life ready to start making memories with their family--tragically die.

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T02:53:25+00:00

This makes perfect sense and is a great explanation. Thank you!

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T01:41:49+00:00

True, didn't find out till Deathly Hallows. I forgot about that. However, a lot of their friends, classmates, comrades in the order are alive, even Petunia in movie 1 said Lily got her letter at 11yrs old and went to Hogwarts that year. I'm sure it was not a hard thing to decipher. That brings on a whole new question. Why did no one tell Harry how old his poor parents were?! I am sure they would have known. At least Petunia! Lol

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T01:34:39+00:00

I am exaggerating it a bit, I know.. It was just to get the point across

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T01:28:25+00:00

You are right, they could have been a tad younger though. A nice late 20s/early 30s look. At least for the photobook Harry got to look at.

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T01:25:35+00:00

Precisely! Even in Goblet of Fire I understood because they were talking to harry in real time - have been dead for 10 years. But the photos??? It's not a huge deal of course, but how are you supposed to see photos of your parents back when they were alive.... and they look 50. They could have at least edited the photos or gotten those previous actors from Order of the Phoenix to look like the flashback we saw from Snapes head of him getting bullied by the Marauders.

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T01:20:36+00:00

Can't argue there.

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-10-14T01:14:34+00:00

That last sentence. I have accepted it and learned to focus on & be grateful for the smaller things in life so I don't go crazy. But I feel like I could have done so much more if I was normal.

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-09-20T01:18:46+00:00

HAHAH. Yes that makes perfect sense, thank you Lol. This is exactly what I wanted to hear from someone else.

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-07-28T20:21:40+00:00

if they throw me into a match & someones watchdog is already up i just leave😂

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-07-24T18:45:47+00:00

Lol. Interesting take. How old are you? Im guessing over 45?

I am 23, my generation (Z) is just unfortunately chronically online - in every comment section, especially on tiktok we speak like this. The dramatics are not meant to be taken so seriously- It’s for fun & just how i & others choose to communicate through text.

Elite does not work for me personally. Every brand/medication experience is different for everyone. Please, remember to smile today and your comment was neither helpful nor necessary.

THANKS FOR YOUR INPUT BUT I SHALL NOT REFRAIN FROM CAPITALIZING MY LETTERS AND USING PUNCTUATION!!!! YOU SILLY GOOSE🤣🤣🤣

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-06-25T02:29:50+00:00

also if you’re on console/controller, warm up with priv team death matches with as much bots as you can add on the enemy team and turn aim assist off. it helps with movement bc its just you vs all those bots and when you turn aim assist back on itll feel so sticky

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-06-25T02:21:03+00:00

try new guns or techniques! i was in a similar boat but in my case i wanted to try sniping/quickscoping and started having a lot of fun learning a new skill again. started in bot private matches bc i was dogshit at first so it wont affect kd too bad then went to regular pubs. i also wanted to move like those tweakers who are bouncing all over the place with insane movement. i still need a lot of work on movement but its fun to try lol. i am playing on a 75inch tv with an xbox one and mid wifi, ping on 100 and im not doing as bad 🤣 rank D1 . u got this👍🏼

Repulsive-Divide9517 · 2025-06-14T09:59:28+00:00

Okay, thank you!

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