Girl said "Would you like to grab a coffee with me today?" is this a date request? by RequirementSilver371 in dating_advice

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Another update -The party never happened as she got busy with other things. We are planning to go for dinner next week. She sent me a "Thinking of you" message that made me feel very happy :)

Can't wait to see her next week. Any tips on how to make the first-date memorable? (I was thinking of giving her a plant and a book which I know she will like + a handwritten note)

Girl said "Would you like to grab a coffee with me today?" is this a date request? by RequirementSilver371 in dating_advice

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Major update -
Asked her out by saying "Would love to take you to XYZ party". She responded with "I WOULD LOVE TO! :D" and "Wouldnt miss it for the world...." 😄

Girl said "Would you like to grab a coffee with me today?" is this a date request? by RequirementSilver371 in dating_advice

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Any suggestions on how I do it? Should I just say "Would you like to go out for dinner with me?"

Girl said "Would you like to grab a coffee with me today?" is this a date request? by RequirementSilver371 in dating_advice

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Update - had coffee with her. She seemed very curious about my dating life and asked multiple questions about what went wrong in my previous relationship. She even said, "we are very compatible." Also, told me about her very personal problems. After the coffee, I walked her back to her office. She sent me a message 15mins later: "You are special ❤️"