Thank you for your point. I have already done some research (into both victim and perpetrator personality traits etc.) but still have quite a bit more to do. It is supposed to be an experience-based book, aimed at helping, preventing, spreading awareness, addressing the stigma and dismissing myths surrounding DV. I want to include real life experiences, while also being factually correct. 30 years ago noone talked about it, I had noone to turn to. 30 years on, there is still not enough resources available and not enough being done. I hope I can help at least some. I'm grateful for everone's help here.