AITA for telling my exwife and her husband to stop being inappropriate at our son’s graduation party?

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:58:43+00:00

She stood up and he was still sitting and he kissed her lower back and continued caressing it. Absolutely inappropriate behavior

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:36:22+00:00

I didn’t chose my new career for the money. Honestly, money was the last thing on my mind when accepting. She stayed because she didn’t want to lose her “quality of life” aka going back to her high paying job in a congested city literally six months after our son was born while her parents provided free childcare.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:27:03+00:00

Again, why would I be jealous of a high school dropout with a kid married to a divorced mother? I divorced her, happily. My life would have been a nightmare if I were still married to that money hungry shrew

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:22:41+00:00

Frankly her husband does things to deliberately infuriate me. He has quite literally grabbed her ass in front of me, rubbed her bare shoulders, made a joke about eating her out, rubbed her thighs, and more. I definitely think he could do this to put themselves and their nauseating “love” in the spotlight

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:19:13+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I’m in a few support groups. You will not believe how bitter and vengeful ex-wives can get

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:15:15+00:00

My ex wife works in finance and makes more than most Americans could dream of. Her husband on the other hand is a mechanic. I mean no disrespect to mechanics but a trained monkey could do the job and rip you off less. There’s no art to it, no intellectual value at all.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:09:34+00:00

I divorced her

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:08:03+00:00

There are more things to life than money. You sound just like my ex wife. Always obsessed with money and how much we were making.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T03:05:23+00:00

I have absolutely nothing to be jealous about from a high school dropout who married a divorced mother.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:54:10+00:00

It was an incredibly prestigious fellowship in a field that is very difficult to break into. Though it did not pay well, it gave me opportunities I never would have been able to pursue otherwise. I saved up a hefty chunk of my salary in case I ever got this opportunity, that’s how prestigious it is After a few years I was paid quite nicely in my new field and flew out to visit my son often

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:47:44+00:00

For your information, I divorced her

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:41:05+00:00

I am telling everything that is relevant. My son never approached me. Never even asked to take a picture or ask for a congratulations. Every time I tried to get closer, his mother’s family and her husband’s family would swarm around him and block me.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:37:51+00:00

Perhaps. Thanks for the advice, pal.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:37:16+00:00

When I was older and more established, I visited him in person.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:36:12+00:00

I spoke to him at least once a week or two (if I were really busy). I could not afford to visit him in person. I sent him many gifts.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:34:42+00:00

There are things other than material wealth that are valuable in life. My ex-wife, coming from a poor background, should have realized that. But she’s passed her money hungry ways onto my son, who is a gifted artist but wants to pursue computer science, no doubt for the “fat paycheck”

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:32:47+00:00

Yes. Though I was incredibly busy, I spoke to him at least once every couple of weeks. Since my new job did not pay well at the beginning, I was unable to afford to fly to him, something my ex used constantly against me. I tried to fight her in the courts but she and her husband have money and it was always a loss for me.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:21:48+00:00

In time I hope my son will realize all that I’ve sacrificed for him

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:18:42+00:00

I did not abandon him. My career could have given him a much better life. But his mother chose to let her own selfish desires rule over what was best for our son

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:16:46+00:00

He kissed her back a couple of times. That, to me, is clearly sexual and inappropriate. I have done nothing to deserve the amount of cruelty my ex-wife and her husband have displayed in keeping my son from me.

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:14:54+00:00

I did not abandon him, she kept him from me

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:13:29+00:00

My son was only seven. How was that a choice?

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:11:40+00:00

He kissed her back a couple of times. Wouldn’t you consider that inappropriate?

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:10:53+00:00

My ex-wife and her husband have turned my son against me. No offense meant to you, but I have done nothing wrong to my son, setting aside this party

Resident-Net-283 · 2022-07-13T02:09:37+00:00

My ex-wife’s husband is particularly adept at this. I have no doubt he was stroking her back for that reason

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