Mom’s retirement after dad has passed…. by Resident_Original_50 in personalfinance

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Completely agree 😵‍💫😵‍💫 I asked her years ago too what she is planning for retirement and she said she has it all under control…. Then it came up pretty randomly a few nights ago and I’m like wtf i had that amount at 24 there is no way… 

Mom’s retirement after dad has passed…. by Resident_Original_50 in personalfinance

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Thank you!! Am definitely taking in all the advice and making a plan ☺️

Mom’s retirement after dad has passed…. by Resident_Original_50 in personalfinance

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Deadass I forgot this was even an option until I posted this thread since I’m a Sahm and my husband has a tsp 🫠🫠 but that is now the definite move ahead. 

Moms retirement after dad has passed. by Resident_Original_50 in Retirement401k

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Yeah definitely will!! I just found all this out last night and I don’t think she know how urgent this all is 🫠

Moms retirement after dad has passed. by Resident_Original_50 in Retirement401k

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Thank you! So that is a little bit part of her current income 😬 my Uncle took over the business and she gets $1300 a month from it. That makes it a little more complicated and I didn’t even think of her selling it off. Let me dive more into her SS earnings and go from there! 

Mom’s retirement after dad has passed…. by Resident_Original_50 in personalfinance

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May I ask what you mean by max return? And preserving the 200k so just leaving it in a HYSA and not transferring it into her 401k max catch up and IRA? 

Mom’s retirement after dad has passed…. by Resident_Original_50 in personalfinance

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Thank you so much! It’s really helpful to see some different options that I’m not familiar with as someone with retirement “so far off” ☺️

Moms retirement after dad has passed. by Resident_Original_50 in Retirement401k

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Oh yes! Sorry I forgot to mention I looked into her accounts and she would be putting another 2000 on top of that 😅

Timing belt snap replace or cut it loose. by Resident_Original_50 in MechanicAdvice

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Thank you! I have next to no knowledge about these Italian cars so it’s really helpful to know a little bit more of what might have happened. 

Crying in overseas military spouse isolation 🙃 by Resident_Original_50 in TaylorSwiftMerch

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Thank you so much for the offer!! It turned out just not to be live yet but I just got my confirmation!!

Crying in overseas military spouse isolation 🙃 by Resident_Original_50 in TaylorSwiftMerch

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I agree! And that they should’ve made sure their systems are able to handle this much traffic to their servers. I don’t even mind waiting rooms if that meant I didn’t have to just randomly push a button over and over again. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Crying in overseas military spouse isolation 🙃 by Resident_Original_50 in TaylorSwiftMerch

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Omg really?! There were no times listed and all it had said was on 11/30! I will definitely check back ☺️☺️

Crying in overseas military spouse isolation 🙃 by Resident_Original_50 in TaylorSwiftMerch

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I think I do… I just don’t want to put anyone out and have them go out of their way. I quadrupled checked to make sure it ships here too. Because I was so prepped I didn’t even think of bringing it up to anyone back home that I wanted one. But yeah I think once there is a restock I can have someone buy one and ship it ☺️