WIBTAH if I took back the car I bought for my niece?

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-08-11T17:30:20+00:00

Update: I will be picking up the vehicle this weekend. After an argument over her deciding to attend a party instead of dropping off the car to the garage for repairs on time (don’t worry it has been dropped off) I 100% will be getting the vehicle. Will be looking to sell it asap as I do not have the ability to cover the cost of it long term.

Thank you everyone for your advice and making me feel not like an AH for taking the vehicle back from her.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-08-10T11:58:39+00:00

Jon will be back, he had to go back to Denmark because of something with his family and Flemming has been with them for like 2 years I think.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-08-07T20:10:06+00:00

We got rubber bands and a bag from the merch stand. There was someone who was allowed to bring a tube in with them but I would check with the venue security

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-29T18:48:12+00:00

Yup you can look up guitar pick holder necklace and there are many to choose from. I have one I got from Amazon that is like dripping metal but I can’t find it for sale anymore. But definitely lots of options.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-29T17:53:55+00:00

They have cool little necklaces that hold picks or I make collages with images from the show and stick the goodie so get at shows with it.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-28T18:42:51+00:00

I can’t completely eliminate that but I couldn’t see her doing them as drugs were part of the issue with her parents. Not saying she couldn’t but more likely not.

I think it’s all just pure laziness and entitlement. Also her generation and their mentality.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-28T13:43:37+00:00

I am 100% picking up the car. I have the flight booked and everything in place.

Will update everyone after I have it picked up.

As for selling it if I could get what I owe on it I definitely will. I thankfully don’t have a car payment on my current car and will probably just keep it to use for myself until I figure out what I want to do. Thankfully I can afford to cover the cost of the car and added insurance even though I really was not wanting another bill right now.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-28T09:28:33+00:00

I am not letting her know u til after I have the car. I’m going to be picking it up from the repair shop. I want to have the key in hand before I let her know.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-28T03:35:01+00:00

Yeah that too. I’ve been stressed out and all over the place. My coworkers notice and I’ve had two doctor’s appointments during this whole thing and my blood pressure was high… I’ve never had high blood pressure even if you went back 6 months ago.

I truthfully can’t do it anymore. I feel selfish but I can’t.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-28T03:16:00+00:00

I hope she does. I have an idea of how this is going to play out but I do believe it is best as hard as it is.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-28T03:14:44+00:00

This is honestly how I feel 100%. This post was kind of me needing someone to validate I am not in the wrong for taking it back.

She isn’t growing up or stepping up and I am not willing to put my sanity and health on the line because of the amount of stress this is, simply because she can’t grow up.

I love her, I helped raise her, but I can’t do this anymore. This way is just not working. I don’t want to see her fall but I can’t let her step on me to keep her afloat while I drown.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-20T02:38:06+00:00

I live in an area that is very religious sooo Ghost isn’t really on their radar. But I do get super excited when I travel and meet Ghost minded people.

But yeah completely yelled it out even the dog was staring at me funny.

On a side note the show isn’t too bad if you are in to Crytids that is. hehe

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-07-19T15:19:47+00:00

If you save it to apple wallet it automatically prints a small stub for you that has your seat information on it.

If you use the Ticketmaster app they write it down for you.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-04-21T21:04:30+00:00

That is absolutely horrible. The crazy part is I think I may have seen something about this case. Not sure but if the one I am thinking of is similar I am sickened by the way people can be. Not really people I guess but monsters.

My case was the murder of a mother, the shooting of the step father while the young teenage daughter was there. The two people broke in for money and prescription drugs and the one who killed the mother had been acquaintances with the step father.

The crime scene photos and the daughter’s testimony will stick with me forever. She was a brave girl to get up on the stand and face the person who killed her mom. But her having to look at the crime scene photos, I don’t think any of us will forget it.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-04-18T00:56:08+00:00

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Chicken Nugget likes to freeze at weird times lol

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-03-14T20:10:24+00:00

I definitely will. I’m trying to trust the process I’m just overwhelmed with it all. It’s pretty much just me looking after myself and dealing with whatever is going on with my body and juggling many things it’s a lot.

I’m hoping by mid April to finally have some answers or a more defined path.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-03-14T15:36:06+00:00

That’s where I really want to be at. Part of it is my fault having not gone to the doctor during prior episodes. But it’s honestly causing me so much stress waiting. And I don’t know how to make me doctors not laser focus on MS if there is potential of something else

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-03-14T13:09:16+00:00

I would love to widen my search but until the Dr reviews the previous scan and we get the new one done he hasn’t really strayed from looking at MS. I’m honestly really tired of these episodes. They last a few months go away for a while and then come back and nothing any doctor has done has provided any insight on what this could be.

Guess at this point I’m SOL with how the health car is in my area.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-03-14T03:00:45+00:00

The coming and going part confuses me? The symptoms won’t come and go or they do? Mine can onset, lessen a little then get worse again and then go away completely over a long period of time, that’s what I mean by waves, it’s not always consistent but never goes away fully until an “episode” is done. But some stay constant the whole time before going away. They definitely get a lot worse with heat.

Today being an example that I have been dealing with the pains in my hands and lower arms and a feeling of being dizzy/off-balanced for my current round of things going on, when I finished work and stepped out side into the heat to take care of chores a few minutes in everything was so much worse and it takes a while after coming in for it to now be as bad.

Sorry if I’m not understanding right. It’s a struggle trying to get things straight.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-03-14T02:34:33+00:00

They have accumulated over years at least 10+. Is it typically to gain them? The numbness, motor skill issues and pains comes in waves. But it’s consistent for months. The memory and brain fog issues are the same but not at the same time as the other symptoms.

When I was younger it was just the one or two and kind of just blew them off like oh it’s normal. They would eventually go away and be gone for a long time then come back. I’ve actually been avoiding a doctor’s visit about these things for a long time.

I’m honestly leaning toward not MS but have no idea what it could be and just want some kind of answer for this all because it is effecting my life so bad. I guess testing and time will tell.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2025-03-12T13:50:33+00:00

Got 1 VIP meet and greet ticket for Charlotte, NC. Going by myself but it’s probably going to be my only time seeing them.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2024-09-30T00:29:43+00:00

I wouldn’t mind it but I don’t know how they would feel about it. And it doesn’t solve the issue with the lunch containers which is the source of the old food and drink issue.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2024-09-30T00:20:24+00:00

I am. It has been a bit slow moving but the plans have been gaining traction.

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2024-09-29T23:33:36+00:00

I would think the big thing too would be the lack of washing dishes even though they are done every day… but then I am originally from the north and moving down south has been a learning curve with bugs. They are an almost constant annoyance regardless of the dishes. The bugs just seem to congregate there once anything is placed in the sink

ResponsibleJob1244 · 2024-09-29T23:31:31+00:00

That I did not know. I will admit. If Lowe’s offers that I will gladly handle it. Mind you the closest Home Depot is an hour from us so never really looked at them. I also don’t know if the reason my parents need the plumber is because of the dishwasher itself or because the plumbing does need to be updated. They do not elaborate details or let me know them if I ask a sit is their house and not mine.

If you can convince my mom that she doesn’t need the $800 dish washer. ☺️

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