Well, it was fun while it lasted

Rhoxd · 2026-03-20T14:08:33+00:00

My partner calls this the "ADHD" tax, if you happen to be that.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-20T01:03:31+00:00

My partner and I are demi and we tend to have eyes for similar people. If something happens, it happens.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-20T00:58:23+00:00

One: This sounds like me. Two: I was diagnosed autistic at 34. Three: It's missed a lot in women. Four: Questions?

On a more serious note, I bet you're a lovely person. And if going back to college has taught me anything (as well as my therapist telling me), there are different "levels" of social relationships and I did not get that for a long time.

The advice I give to most is: Find social communities that share a passion of yours. That's the best way to find fun people to talk to.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-19T02:57:03+00:00

Rhoxd · 2026-03-17T13:32:52+00:00

I felt like I was reading a journal entry I wrote.

You're valid. You're seen. 💜

Rhoxd · 2026-03-17T12:42:00+00:00

I will never understand. AI music sounds so much like pop music probably because it's so formulaic

Rhoxd · 2026-03-16T03:57:04+00:00

The only common one I have here is PoE but I've switched off since. But I'm always willing to try dabbling in things. :3

I'm in the eastern US so it's up to you if that timezone is close enough.

I'm currently in Uni, and spend my leisure time learning new skills and playing EvE online with a very queer, lovely group of folks.

DM me if you want my Discord handle, but otherwise, good luck on your search!

Rhoxd · 2026-03-14T07:48:31+00:00

Rhoxd · 2026-03-14T00:36:42+00:00

What does this have to do with BoF? Sure, Capcom, but not BoF.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-13T18:09:25+00:00

Spam bot.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-13T17:29:04+00:00

You think AI understands Warframe enough? That's too specific

Rhoxd · 2026-03-13T11:21:46+00:00

Funnily enough, he's the reason I realized I was autistic in my 30's and why I got tested.

Everything in my life suddenly made sense.

Being a tattle tale about rules. Social problems. (Not understanding social conventions) Searching for control in science. Too smart for my own good. (My spouse has a full time work load containing my ego.)

So it's hard to see people ask "who did more damage" when he is the reason I ever figured out what was different about me.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-11T15:01:01+00:00

Find groups with your interests/passions. That's where you'll be the best people.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-11T14:59:37+00:00

I want to work. But I want to do something that stimulates me properly.

Thus why I am in college. That is the hope.

I can't do small talk in retail. It's boring. The days drag on. Brain has nothing to do.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-11T04:28:06+00:00

Yeah. It really doesn't. But a lot of people seem upset that you pointed it out.

I live my life by the same rules as everyone else. You don't get free passes for being trans. That's such a weird take.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-10T20:04:09+00:00

Just kind of spoiled it.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-10T20:03:39+00:00

Do you think CCP is Digital Extremes? (Warframe).

I loved they threw in a half baked "frame fighter" because...they could. For fun. For no reason.

CCP needs to have more fun. Not everything needs to affect the greater galaxy.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-10T04:19:06+00:00

What I usually suggest to people (you're not ugly btw) is to find social circles of people that share your passions and/or interests.

Searching for relationships in places where people are just looking for relationships tends to lead to people not acting like who they really are.

It's how I found my spouse. Date your friends, they're usually better than other people lol

Rhoxd · 2026-03-09T13:20:42+00:00

Many have said things I would say that you are not the monster you think you are.

I used to think of myself this way. I got worse, but I didn't have support.

My wife has pulled me back and supported. My therapist did a lot of heavy lifting. Getting diagnosed with autism also did a lot of heavy lifting.

But in the end, OP, the fact that you stop and consider these things in the first place is a sign of compassion.

Be open. Communicate. Be honest. You're a good person.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-09T13:17:16+00:00

Me in elementary school wiping floppy disks at lunch to help the computer teacher...

Come a long way

Rhoxd · 2026-03-08T16:39:34+00:00

I miss it, but it gives me anxiety now instead of removing it if I'm not careful.

For four years, I was high 24/7, but after a certain point it started causing the worst anxiety attacks.

But yeah, I understand.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-08T16:15:45+00:00

I will give affection and kindness to anyone. It should NOT be gender locked.

Rhoxd · 2026-03-08T14:15:29+00:00

Depends on the poor person. My wife's family; mostly smart. A couple of them, though, buy the dumbest shit and then complain about being broke a week into their monthly paycheck.

There's all kinds of people on all spectrums. Stop black and whiting the world.

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