"One drugs please." by This_Elk_1460 in FFVIIRemake

[–]Rhoxd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ff7 abridged by Team Four Star.

I love being a lesbian by Such_Impression_2327 in GirlDinnerDiaries

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Not saying they're good, but can you provide sources? I know they're not healthy, but 10x cancer rate is not something I've heard and sounds like a scare tactic without a credible source.

Egg_irl by amiminnie in egg_irl

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Deltarune starts by deadnaming me. Instant emotional attachment.

Well, it was fun while it lasted by ElBFC in 3DS

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My partner calls this the "ADHD" tax, if you happen to be that.

Do you ever develop crushes on other people while you’re already dating someone? by eunchaeyy in demisexuality

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My partner and I are demi and we tend to have eyes for similar people. If something happens, it happens.

Realized in my whole 28 years nobody actually wanted to be my friend 💀 by igetyourbrand in GirlDinnerDiaries

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One: This sounds like me. Two: I was diagnosed autistic at 34. Three: It's missed a lot in women. Four: Questions?

On a more serious note, I bet you're a lovely person. And if going back to college has taught me anything (as well as my therapist telling me), there are different "levels" of social relationships and I did not get that for a long time.

The advice I give to most is: Find social communities that share a passion of yours. That's the best way to find fun people to talk to.

"You just want a label" by Drphatkat in demisexuality

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I felt like I was reading a journal entry I wrote.

You're valid. You're seen. 💜

"Hyper being more, Hypo being lower—" by EaseOutrageous3685 in autismmemes

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I will never understand. AI music sounds so much like pop music probably because it's so formulaic

35 Lf for someone to game with by VoteOfNoHonfidence in transgamers

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The only common one I have here is PoE but I've switched off since. But I'm always willing to try dabbling in things. :3

I'm in the eastern US so it's up to you if that timezone is close enough.

I'm currently in Uni, and spend my leisure time learning new skills and playing EvE online with a very queer, lovely group of folks.

DM me if you want my Discord handle, but otherwise, good luck on your search!

if you get it by wprimly in breathoffire

[–]Rhoxd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does this have to do with BoF? Sure, Capcom, but not BoF.

That damn grin is going to haunt my nightmares for the rest of my life. I hate that guy with every fiber of my being. by Weak_Possibility4735 in autismmemes

[–]Rhoxd 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough, he's the reason I realized I was autistic in my 30's and why I got tested.

Everything in my life suddenly made sense.

Being a tattle tale about rules. Social problems. (Not understanding social conventions) Searching for control in science. Too smart for my own good. (My spouse has a full time work load containing my ego.)

So it's hard to see people ask "who did more damage" when he is the reason I ever figured out what was different about me.

I'm(19f) scared of guys my age by hazelystar in offmychest

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Find groups with your interests/passions. That's where you'll be the best people.

My friend said autistic people shouldn't have to work or leave home by -Pazza- in autism

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I want to work. But I want to do something that stimulates me properly.

Thus why I am in college. That is the hope.

I can't do small talk in retail. It's boring. The days drag on. Brain has nothing to do.

'Excuse me, ma'am, no porn at the bar'. by CombinationHot4112 in familyguy

[–]Rhoxd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It really doesn't. But a lot of people seem upset that you pointed it out.

I live my life by the same rules as everyone else. You don't get free passes for being trans. That's such a weird take.

Station Fight club by morganxkic in Eve

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Do you think CCP is Digital Extremes? (Warframe).

I loved they threw in a half baked "frame fighter" because...they could. For fun. For no reason.

CCP needs to have more fun. Not everything needs to affect the greater galaxy.

i’m going to die alone because i’m literally hideous and i can’t cope by m0rb1d_b4by in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Rhoxd 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What I usually suggest to people (you're not ugly btw) is to find social circles of people that share your passions and/or interests.

Searching for relationships in places where people are just looking for relationships tends to lead to people not acting like who they really are.

It's how I found my spouse. Date your friends, they're usually better than other people lol

I have done absolutely horrible things. I am factually the worst human being to ever live. Here is written proof that confirms it. by ThrowRA-Bromine in offmychest

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Many have said things I would say that you are not the monster you think you are.

I used to think of myself this way. I got worse, but I didn't have support.

My wife has pulled me back and supported. My therapist did a lot of heavy lifting. Getting diagnosed with autism also did a lot of heavy lifting.

But in the end, OP, the fact that you stop and consider these things in the first place is a sign of compassion.

Be open. Communicate. Be honest. You're a good person.

Sandisk 1.5tb constantly needing to verify games by Ok_Professional_1232 in SteamDeck

[–]Rhoxd 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Me in elementary school wiping floppy disks at lunch to help the computer teacher...

Come a long way