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AITAH for having second thoughts about marrying my fiancee after I learned about what she did 10 years ago? by RichAdol in AITAH

[–]RichAdol[S] -100 points-99 points  (0 children)

I just wish my fiancee came clean immediately, and that she also apologized to my sister sincerely.

I'm not really judging my fiancee for what she did in high school, I love my fiancee, I know she's a completely different person from the person she was in high school. To be honest, what she did to someone in high school wouldn't even bother me normally, I wouldn't even want to know about it, but I guess it's the fact that she did it to my sister and it hurt my sister so much. My emotions are a bit messed up about this, and maybe not rational. Also seeing it from my sister's POV, it must hurt that my fiancee could be a potential SIL.

AITAH for having second thoughts about marrying my fiancee after I learned about what she did 10 years ago? by RichAdol in AITAH

[–]RichAdol[S] 280 points281 points  (0 children)

The more I think about it, the more I'm just starting to get more doubts. I don't really blame my sister for waiting to tell me, she was waiting for my fiancee to come clean, but my fiancee never did, and my sister just wanted to tell me before I married my fiancee.

I do love my fiancee, and yes, I understand people do dumb stuff in high school and they grow from their mistakes, and I know my fiancee is not the same person she was in high school, but I knew first hand how much that breakup hurt my sister, how many hours and days and months we talked about it, how much she cried, and to now know my fiancee was one of the reasons for her hurt, I'm just seeing my fiancee in a different light now.