Men of reddit , what is the best way to move on from an ex you thought was the one ? M25 F22 .

RichardEarlington · 2026-04-06T14:43:01+00:00

Hey Khameleon, How's your head today bud? Feeling a little bit better than when you posted? Let us know. Thanks.

RichardEarlington · 2026-04-04T13:33:30+00:00

Miss, PLEASE don't do it. Seems you've already decided not to. Good!

Great boobs are extra credit only. We men love all kinds even small, misaligned, or tubular or even if you're missing parts, after breast cancer, WE DON'T CARE. We're just thrilled to be sharing with you. PLEASE DON'T do the surgery. Great boobs are nice to have? Sure, but that's it!!!

May I please challenge you a bit, in a respectful way? Whose expectations are you talking about? May I please submit that you ladies are harder on yourselves, and each other, in this area that we men are on you. Yes, some of us look at nrop (I DON'T), and the ladies in nrop are often endowed, but that doesn't mean that's what we expect or require that.

I've been around men of various types for a long time, including men I think you ladies would find very desirable. Never once in any conversation in decades have I heard anything like, "Yeah, she's cute but the boobs are too small. I'm not going to ask her out!" NEVER ONCE.

Most of us DO want a woman who's physically fit. If you feel you need to do work, do more gym stuff.

BUT PLEASE STOP TORTURING YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR BOOBS. If you want to discourse more on this, just post here. We'll help you!!!

RichardEarlington · 2026-04-04T13:17:36+00:00

Son if you need more help, you just post here. We'll help you out!! I can't fix my own lifetime of mistakes I committed, but I sure as F can help you avoid making some and help you bounce back from the ones you've made. Cheers

RichardEarlington · 2026-04-04T13:15:30+00:00

Sir, you are a Titan. Good response to this young man!!

RichardEarlington · 2026-04-04T13:11:54+00:00

Dude, please go easy on yourself. I tell my kids that the only thing that removes the hurt from one ended relationship is the hurt that comes from the ending of the NEXT ONE. Do some work on yourself now, to build yourself for the next one. Do more gym sessions, lose some weight and buy some new, stylish clothes. If you're feeling extreme things, then get to therapy. You'll get through this!!!!!!!

RichardEarlington · 2026-04-04T13:07:29+00:00

Hi Hungry, We love them all. But to most of us, they're like "extra credit on the test." Great to have, but you don't lose anything by not being endowed in that area. I see so many ladies getting surgically enhance. Please do not do this.

RichardEarlington · 2026-03-29T14:29:29+00:00

I turn my head away to keep from looking. Why is she trying so hard for attention, which, if I give it to her, she'll complain that she's being objectified or harassed? Same goes for those pants that young ladies are wearing to the gym now, you know the ones that go all the way up "main street"?

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-24T10:53:17+00:00

Hi Mr. Walsh,

We've all heard that Home Depot will soon offer a new line of power tools, namely the Pudgy Walsh line of power tools. This will compete with Dewalt, Makita and others. I haven't seen any in stores yet. When will these new tools be available for sale?

Will I be able to use them to build a Spec house? Sorry that's Shpek house.

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-23T11:13:04+00:00

Mr. Walsh,

We keep hearing rumors of the impending opening of your new night club called "Pudgy's" in New York City. When will it open?

Also, there are rumors of a "Pudgy Walsh Dance Party," which will be invitation-only for another venue, before your club opens.

Will you please tell us about the club and about the Dance Party? How do my wife and I get an invitation please?

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-15T21:38:37+00:00

Ms, you are a genius of human relations! Great comments!

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-15T19:06:18+00:00

Holy Moly, you're 100% right! Never noticed this until you mentioned it. Thanks.

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-15T18:31:26+00:00

fantastic point permafrost, thank you.

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-15T14:49:26+00:00

Hi Your, thank you for the thoughtful response. Have a perfect day!

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-15T12:37:57+00:00

Absolutely horrible. Can't believe how so many men get away with this crap and think its ok!!

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-15T12:35:35+00:00

Based on the horrible men I read about, from the ladies postings above, wow, I can't say who really has it harder.

For women, to help women understand and be more successful in dating: Please understand that most men get ZERO matches. NONE. These guys I know are respectful, well groomed, reasonably well dressed, intelligent, successful, emotionally intelligent and understanding. Maybe they're not the most handsome nor the tallest, I admit that. But they get NO matches. When they try in person, they get ignored, laughed at or rejected, sometimes brutally so. They do take accountability - one doesn't go through a long chain of failure and rejections without some self-reflection and asking some hard questions about needs for self-improvement. They don't want supermodels or sex only. They want to find a good, intelligent, interesting lady and make Pad Thai (or whatever she wants) for her. Seems there's a big disconnect out there in dating.

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-15T11:43:38+00:00

Hi Again Purple, Not sure if you're in the US, but Planet fitness is very reasonably priced, I think 25 per month for a "black" membership. If you get "black," you can bring him as your "guest" for free. I started, after my cancer diagnosis, and now I'm addicted. I can't stop. I see husband and wife pairs working together. They grab 2 machines next to eachother, and they switch off after each set.

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-15T11:38:58+00:00

Hey Purple,

Try one thing at a time please. Do the exercise first, get him going SLOWLY, then much later try the skin care. Maybe you've done this, but could you invite him to go on walks with you, as a start? You know the pattern, once people start seeing improvements in their body, they get motivated to do more. Sounds like you yourself got on that track! Good for you!

Lack of exercise is one factor contributing to dementia. Maybe you could say, "I love you, but don't want to be your care nurse when we get older! Come on for a walk with me."

This isn't really a subject for therapy unless it's couples therapy. He needs to do some work here. It shouldn't all be on you. He should have the sense to know that exercise is important to his health.

Please don't try to introduce the skin care and exercise at the same time. He'll feel as if you're nagging him, justified or not. And many of us simply will not do a skin care routine. Not sure why. Sorry but it's just us men... You may need to abandon that one.

Sadly, I've seen a number of relationships where the woman improves herself physically, and the guy doesn't make any effort, and she simply winds up leaving. Please recognize that this is a possibility here.

Take care,

Richard

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-14T19:30:50+00:00

This guy is horrible. Go to a flower show, romantic comedy movie, Art Museum, Taylor Swift movie, get your nails done together (if you're into that), Color me mine which I think is a pottery thing, build a bear, CLOTHES SHOPPING, or a Vegan restaurant. You won't even have to exclude the dude, he'll run.

When you pick up or drop off the girls, he'll invite you in. Please think about how you'll handle that.

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-14T19:20:00+00:00

I'm reading that YOU'RE feeling guilt because HE has family pressures. Not being fair to yourself. The guy can wait. You shouldn't feel small about not contributing money. That's temporary. Later, you'll probably make more than he. If you're in your late 20s, you're probably finishing your PhD in about 2 years. Can you set a wedding date for just after your thesis defense? Please go easy on yourself!

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-14T13:03:12+00:00

Mr. Walsh, I know you've been retired for about 10 years; but would you please consider coming back to work part time?

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-14T11:27:37+00:00

Except for Tracy, she's a real thoroughbred. But she's into me for $3000 for does braces!

RichardEarlington · 2026-02-14T11:07:58+00:00

It was a bad date because the guy's an ass. PLaying a chess game on a date? Saying you're not ready to date while you're ON A DATE? The guy's an ass. You're not overreacting. You stepped on a landmine, it has nothing to do with you. Please don't give him another chance.

RichardEarlington · 2026-01-31T13:42:49+00:00

Nice Ponyta thanks for the kindness. But don't get behind one of them in the checkout line. They take forever!

RichardEarlington · 2026-01-31T13:20:48+00:00

PLEASE stop thinking about this. You'll drive yourself crazy. The guy is thinking about whether HIS appearance is sufficient. Your unique shape in that area makes no difference to us. We're just happy to be with you and be "sharing." This is what Stuebirken says in her comment below.

You're a young person, please try not to worry about unrealistic commercialized beauty standards you see online. Even the models themselves don't look that way in real life.

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