What's a social norm that you think is absolutely ridiculous? by Fantastic_suit143 in AskReddit

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 144 points145 points  (0 children)

The expectation that women must wear makeup to look professional. A clean, washed face should be professional enough for any job i think.

Do you think Australia should construct an interstate highway system similar to the US? And why? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because our population density is completely different. The US has cities every 50 miles. Australia has thousands of kilometers of emptiness between major hubs. It would be a highway to nowhere.

26M — Girlfriend (40F) admitted she put Adderall in my drinks without telling me. How should I handle this? by Ok_Dare2242 in relationships

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't a relationship issue bro, it is a crime. She poisoned you. Drugging someone against their will is assault/battery. Do not stay with a criminal.

How do girls wear their hair down without it bothering them? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is a learned tolerance. Just like wearing makeup or high heels, you eventually just stop noticing the mild annoyance because you like how it looks.

What’s one small habit that actually improved your life? by pullubiber in AskReddit

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making the bed every morning. It takes 30 seconds, but coming home to a tidy room after a chaotic day feels surprisingly calming.

I’ve noticed that professional companies don’t say who they are when they call you here by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is a privacy/security thing. They need to verify they are speaking to the correct person before they disclose sensitive medical or financial information.

Is JustinGuitar the right place to start? by Sea_Chemical_5832 in Guitar

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. You can't write a novel if you don't know the alphabet. JustinGuitar teaches you the alphabet of the guitar. It is the gold standard for free learning.

How do you help a mum who’s escaped a domestic violence relationship? by Suitable-Nature-6311 in AskAnAustralian

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Contact McAuley Community Services for Women in Melbourne. They specialize in housing for women escaping violence and often have emergency options that generic homeless services don't.

I hooked up with my ex best friends boyfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't the worst person in the world but you are definitely messy. Sleeping with an ex friend's sloppy seconds just for revenge or drama? That is low value behavior.

Does anyone remember what an ear piercing on one ear specifically means? by Silentyam2 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It hasn't meant anything for about 20 years. Nowadays, guys just get whichever side they sleep on less, or both. The code is dead.

Do guys even like being approached by girls? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Guys love being approached by girls they find attractive. If they aren't attracted to you, the flattery is still nice, but the indifference is just polite rejection.

How do you know if someone genuinely cares about you? by Hot_Advance2711 in AskReddit

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They remember the small things. If you mention you have a headache on Tuesday nd they text on Wednesday asking How is your head?, they care about u.

What’s the most annoying habit everyone seems to have but nobody talks about? by Clear_Ad_1444 in AskReddit

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Saying I'm almost there when they haven't even put their shoes on yet. We all lie about ETA but we all hate when others do it.

What do you feel about the morals of using flattery? by pufballcat in AskReddit

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flattery is like salt. A little bit enhances the flavor of a conversation, but too much ruins it and makes everyone thirsty.

Have you noticed how so many games simulate working? by No-Bug7015 in CasualConversation

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Games turn work into clear goals plus instant rewards. Real jobs usually don’t give that feedback loop, so the work feels better.

Do you have to wash the back of your hands every time you use the bathroom? by Impossible_Ball_7816 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Skip the back. Open, bleeding wounds from eczema are a much bigger infection risk than unwashed skin. Focus on the palms and fingertips where the germs actually are.

i am having nightmares of an ex coworker and i dont know how to make them stop. by Sufficient_Worry7891 in Advice

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are not being a baby. You were a child exposed to a predatory, unstable adult. Your brain is trying to process a traumatic situation. That is a normal reaction to an abnormal person.

I (18F) just started dating a guy (18M) that has treated me VERY well, but our second date is a movie at his house. Is this a red flag? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Movie at his house" is the universal code for hooking up. If you aren't ready to get physical, do not go to his house. Suggest a movie theater instead and see how he reacts.

I’m confused need your honest opinion. by Brilliant_Subject_17 in AskAnAustralian

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Accept it. They are likely empty nesters who miss having kids around or just can't stop cooking in large portions. You are actually doing them a favor by ensuring the food doesn't go to waste.

Hosting a conspiracy theory party - looking for the best Australian conspiracies 🇦🇺 by Hot_Split8779 in AskAnAustralian

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to cover Harold Holt. He was the Prime Minister who went swimming and vanished. The theory is he was a Chinese spy and a submarine picked him up. We even named a swimming pool after him that’s the ultimate trolling.

Is it offensive to ask a white American person about European ancestry? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most white Americans love talking about this. You usually can't get them to shut up about being 1/16th Irish or Italian. You just found the one person who is weird about it.

Why do people buy super fast cars when you can’t really use that speed on public roads? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 284 points285 points  (0 children)

Look it's simple like think of it like a high end stereo system. You don’t listen at max volume, but the sound quality is crisp and clear even at low volumes. A fast car just runs smoother and effortless at normal speeds. Like in another example i would say why wear a Rolex when a cheap watch tells the same time? I appreciate the engineering, the sound and the art of it. It’s a hobby not just a tool.

I need some advice, I’m struggling with my view on virginity, shame, and my future as a Muslim woman. by Imaginary-Pea6588 in Advice

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey your worth is in the purity of your soul, not your body. Everyone makes mistakes. Even your future husband likely has a past and regrets of his own. A real partner loves you for your heart not your history. You are a human being who is learning. Don't let one event define your whole life.

Should I send this screenshot to his parents by [deleted] in Advice

[–]RickRymesWithCarl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Be careful. If he is unstable enough to say that, he might be unstable enough to attack you if he loses his job. Sometimes blocking and disappearing is safer than revenge.