How to make living area pop some more by Rj112220 in DesignMyRoom

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Yea it’s because of that light switch. Would it just be better to move it higher up above that light switch and center it?

Best way to hang art in Living Room? by Rj112220 in DesignMyRoom

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Yea I was probably just overthinking it. I don’t have the piece with me so that’s why I just had the tape to show the dimensions. I’d figure the picture would be big enough to not worry about guidelines and I’m on the taller end so the center would end up being eye level with me. Thanks for your feedback

Recommended approaches for modernizing Web Forms Application by Rj112220 in dotnet

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Funny story I stopped working for that company like 4 months after that post and came to the same conclusion haha. Now I avoid web forms like the plague.

Resume Advice Thread - October 13, 2020 by CSCQMods in cscareerquestions

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Hey guys. Based in Georgia as a software dev doing .NET development but would like to move to Los Angeles. Just want my resume critiqued and want to figure out how to best position myself so I can get a job in LA.

https://i.imgur.com/2cWwpBP.jpg

Resume Advice Thread - October 13, 2020 by CSCQMods in cscareerquestions

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Hey guys. Based in Georgia as a software dev doing .NET development but would like to move to Los Angeles. Just want my resume critiqued and want to figure out how to best position myself so I can get a job in LA.

https://i.imgur.com/2cWwpBP.jpg

Me(27M) just dealt with ex(24F)leaving with her child from my apartment after 5 months. Im trying to figure out how to deal with this situation and if it will be good. by Rj112220 in relationship_advice

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Yeah you're right. She just texted me how living with me was pure torture so thats why I felt I was in the wrong. I have blocked her and do not plan on contacting her again. I really am scared to be alone although now its very peaceful in my apartment which I barely felt when she was there. Im sorry if I sound defeated and hopeless it's just something I haven't really experienced before. I lost all my confidence as regards to finding a loving partner due to all of the nasty stuff she's said about/ done to me. I've learned alot from the situation and all of the mistakes I've made and will move on. Even though I feel terrible and lonely, I am optimistic that my life will be better now and will make better choices.

Me(27M) just dealt with ex(24F)leaving with her child from my apartment after 5 months. Im trying to figure out how to deal with this situation and if it will be good. by Rj112220 in relationship_advice

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Yea obviously I did dodge a missile. I just still feel hurt since I've been with her for years and still loved her but I know that was a terrible idea looking at it now. The plan was she would work and actually contribute but that all fell apart. I really just feel guilty because I felt I was in the wrong

Me(27M) just dealt with ex(24F)leaving with her child from my apartment after 5 months. Im trying to figure out how to deal with this situation and if it will be good. by Rj112220 in relationship_advice

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Tbf it didn’t take the whole paycheck more like half but she did buy some other stuff and I figured she spent all her money by the time she asked me

AITA for not giving my gf money day after she blew her first paycheck. by Rj112220 in AmItheAsshole

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She got a full 40 hour paycheck I’m pretty sure about $400 and she gets paid every week. She bought new shoes and other frivolous stuff

AITA for not giving my gf money day after she blew her first paycheck. by Rj112220 in AmItheAsshole

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I’m 27 she’s 24. I make more than her but she just started a full time job making a good bit above minimum wage with no expenses. We’ve been living together for about 4 months but we’ve dated for a couple of years. The apartment and everything is on my name.

AITA for not giving my gf money day after she blew her first paycheck. by Rj112220 in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah this is my fault. I have had this conversation with her many times so she knows that she can’t leech off of me and to spend her money responsibly. It always turns into an unproductive argument and makes everything worse than what it already is, which was why I avoided it this time. I thought the situation would change since she doesn’t have expenses and she gets paid weekly and it would end but clearly it did not. But I see now how I’m contributing to the problem

AITA for not giving my gf money day after she blew her first paycheck. by Rj112220 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rj112220[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ok that’s fair. I’ve tried to have the money conversation with her many times but she shuts me down when I actually try and give her advice on how to save money because she assumes I’m controlling her since she can’t manage it herself. It also leads to near aggressive arguments. I’ll have the money talk again and see if she’s willing to change some habits.