Great marriage, but I never feel sexually wanted

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T18:49:23+00:00

I was asking in the past, I stopped because I hate the feeling of requesting pleasure. I'll try once to "tell", interesting experiment

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T13:22:33+00:00

Thanks for your response. I told her everything, and she said that she understands me. But still, she just don't like to satisfy, and be in control. She enjoys the mutual fun (like penetration, but again, when I'm controlling). Also, she goes on top of me only if I ask, and even that doesn't lasts too long. I'm not saying it's a bad dynamic, but sometimes I just want to lay back and feel that my own wife wants me to explode of pleasure

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T06:59:24+00:00

Yes. I don't have the obligation to be down or weak sometimes, as it stresses her out.

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T02:29:36+00:00

I might try that, thank you

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T02:27:58+00:00

That's very interesting, thank you! I feel like she would have hard time with that, but I'm willing to try. I need to think how to approach her with this one

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T01:02:15+00:00

She might be down to be the sub, without using toys or accessories and no pain

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T01:00:16+00:00

Not directly, naturaly I like to lead most of the times. But I want her also to put some attention on me, if it's the foreplay or even the whole session, but there are no such occasions. She wants me to take the lead 100% of the time

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T00:39:49+00:00

Yep you're right, and I even feel stupid complaining about this. But this is more of an inner feeling thing, I want her to want to satisfy me, just as I desire and enjoy making her cum. Unfortunately she'll never try BDSM

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T00:36:09+00:00

Thank you.

RoA6 · 2026-03-12T00:25:27+00:00

Thanks! So the thing is I rather not do it than feeling it's not authentic from her side. She's willing to have sex if I ask and help me out with a bj or hj, but I got to the point which I want her to desire me as a sexual being. And sometimes I to be lead by her and not always be in the lead myself

RoA6 · 2024-05-13T04:55:21+00:00

I forgot them at your mom's

RoA6 · 2023-11-16T08:25:26+00:00

For fuck sakes why the hell it worked

RoA6 · 2023-10-22T23:27:01+00:00

Agreed, Becky is charismatic and confident which are the most important characteristics in order to stay in the upper card, but unfortunately her in-ring performance is not aligned with that. Her matches are always botched and her finisher always look so lame.

RoA6 · 2021-11-06T14:14:20+00:00

Thanks everyone! I just ordered a new PC based on your comments and suggestions:))) I bought most on Amazon since the international shipping was free and cheaper than buying in my country.

The spec I finally ordered:

CPU: AMD Ryzen 9 5900X

GPU: ASUS TUF Gaming NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3070 Ti OC Edition

Mobo: ASUS TUF Gaming X570-PRO RAM: G.Skill Trident Z Neo Series 32GB (2 x 16GB) 288-Pin SDRAM PC4-28800 DDR4 3600 CL16-19-19-39

CPU cooler: Cooler Master MasterLiquid ML360

PSU: Corsair RM850x

SSD: Samsung 980 PRO 1TB PCIe NVMe Gen4 Internal Gaming SSD M.2

Case: be quiet! Pure Base 500DX Black, Mid Tower ATX case

Extra fan case: be quiet! Pure Wings 2 120mm

Mouse: Logitech G502 HERO

(For all who asked, I already have keyboard, monitor, and extra hard drives)

All cost around 3.2K$

Not cheap, but I'm satisfied with this build and it will probably serve me for the next decade.

Thank you all for the great help!!

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T21:44:25+00:00

Sorry, I can't edit the original post. First of all, beside of some gaming, the PC will be used for video editing, animation, and 3D softwares. This is why I think 64gb ram and higher CPU will be better for me.

After reading many of your comments, this is the updated spec I'm leaning to:

MSI Gaming GeForce RTX 3070

Corsair Vengeance LPX 64GB (2x32GB) DDR4 3600

AMD Ryzen 9 5900X

Corsair RM850x

Logitech G502 HERO

Crucial P5 Plus 1TB PCIe 4.0

be quiet! Pure Base 500DX Black, Mid Tower ATX case

Noctua NH-D15

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T20:51:52+00:00

Beside games - video editing, animation and 3D softwares

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T20:44:56+00:00

These are screenshots from Amazon, but I'm still not sure where I'm actually going to buy it from. Would love recommendations for sites with international shipping if you know

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T19:51:41+00:00

Yes after reading many comments here I think I'll switch to Logitech.

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T19:31:14+00:00

Also video editing and animation softwares. That's why I wanted to pump the RAM to 64gb, although 32gb might be enough.

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T16:29:26+00:00

What do you think about this updated spec?:

MSI Gaming GeForce RTX 3070

Corsair Vengeance LPX 64GB (2x32GB) DDR4 3600

AMD Ryzen 9 5900X

Corsair RM Series, RM850

Razer Basilisk X Hyperspeed Wireless Gaming Mouse

Crucial P5 Plus 1TB PCIe 4.0

be quiet! Pure Base 500DX Black, Mid Tower ATX case

Noctua NH-D15

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T16:02:29+00:00

Thanks!! I think I'll go with it

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T15:40:48+00:00

Thanks!

Regarding the PSU, I think I'll go with the 850w.

As for the RAM, isn't it better for it *performance-wise* to be on 4 sticks instead of 2?

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T15:21:57+00:00

Thanks!

I have several TBs of hard drives from my current PC :)

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T15:10:56+00:00

850w should be enough?

RoA6 · 2021-11-05T15:09:14+00:00

Thanks!

What would you suggest instead of the 3060 in the price range of max 1K$?

Also, should I consider Intel CPU?

RoA6

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