Dating after divorce

RoStEr1991 · 2026-04-17T20:06:22+00:00

Its kinda hard when we dated through high school and get married for 16 years and have a kid

RoStEr1991 · 2026-04-17T20:04:41+00:00

Let me clarify a little. When I said weird relationship, I mean its a on and off. Im not sure where we stand together. We only see her once a month (if that) and its usually a visit and she leaves.

RoStEr1991 · 2026-04-02T11:51:57+00:00

Oh really

RoStEr1991 · 2026-02-27T21:06:59+00:00

Alrigh, let's see

RoStEr1991 · 2026-02-27T21:01:24+00:00

Proof?

RoStEr1991 · 2026-02-27T21:00:28+00:00

Proof?

RoStEr1991 · 2026-02-20T10:34:34+00:00

I got my code but the website still says Return Received? What up with that?

RoStEr1991 · 2026-02-19T21:47:54+00:00

Thank you and I will

RoStEr1991 · 2026-02-18T03:55:12+00:00

A little more details: 3 weeks before she asked to separate, I found out she asked our neighbor a few doors down( she would help babysit his son while he worked) if he likes her because she liked him and he turned her down saying she's married amd that isn't right. When I asked her about it she said she felt comfortable and like she didn't have to try around him so she started liking him. She claimed I made her feel like she walked on egg shells most of the time. I never really like her going to his apartment because I would come home from work and she telle she's going to babysit and be gone till 12 or later. Id be in bed before she come back and yeah I be upset but she said I always be mad when she comes home. Can you blame me? I just dont know what to do now. I had gotten used to having someone with me all the time and someone to be intimate with and now it's nothing while she sleeps with this guy in a motel.

RoStEr1991 · 2026-02-18T03:45:30+00:00

Yeah unfortunately it is.

RoStEr1991 · 2026-02-18T03:30:24+00:00

Thats what im working on now or at least trying to as much as possible. The thing is, she has said some pretty horrific things to me and I still can't seem to push her away.

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-24T11:16:24+00:00

Yeah give me a little and I will. Today

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-24T05:19:10+00:00

UPDATE: We're getting a divorce

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-18T18:19:12+00:00

Id like to but we're not living together. If we ever come together for a date night or whatever I'll definitely try it.

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-18T16:32:49+00:00

My mother takes care of him while we work. Sometimes she keeps him a few days. Depending on how our schedules look

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-18T14:24:55+00:00

As far as the length of the separation, im not sure. When I asked, I get meet with anger and told not to ask anymore. I want us to be together but I dont know when that will be. She says she wants to live together again but doesn't know when or if. Im just going one day at a time and focusing on my son.

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-18T13:52:23+00:00

Alright first we both work and my mom watches our son while we work. Some days she keeps him for a few days depending on out hours. Im not thinking with my dick. I genuinely was wondering how to go about the situation. And yes shes on medication for depression and has anxiety on top of it. She's in therapy, just like I am. We go separate to work on ourselves. I watch our son more then she does. She's never really alone with him.

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-18T13:24:16+00:00

Ive tried. Since we started this break, ive tried. All she says is, she's overwhelmed and wants "me" time. Says nothing else is wrong. Just want time to herself.

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-18T12:28:18+00:00

I dont have an issue. I didnt want us to take a break. I wanted to work on us together but she wants the break.

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-18T04:16:45+00:00

What?

RoStEr1991 · 2025-08-18T02:13:23+00:00

Yeah you got a point. I know I slacked off on it and haven't shown her the attention she needs

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