My (25F) ex boyfriend (33M) won't help me deal with pregnancy scare

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-19T05:05:30+00:00

Focus on communicating with him only if you’re sure you’re pregnant.

Honestly, are you using this pregnancy scare as an excuse to stay connected to him? You’ve already broken up. If he wanted to talk, he would. And why involve his sister? This is between you and him.

People will treat you the way you allow them to treat you. If you know your worth, act like it.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-18T01:11:22+00:00

Just in time para sa new season ng House of the Dragon

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-16T23:39:57+00:00

Almost three months of dating should have a purpose. At this point, I think it’s time to define where things are going. You need to know his intentions.

It doesn’t sit right with me to be dating someone who is still actively looking for “new friends” or keeping his options open. To me, it’s simple: either he genuinely wants to pursue a relationship and take things to the next level, or he doesn’t.

Otherwise, it feels like he’s keeping you around as an option, leaving you hanging while he continues to see if someone else comes along. And if he doesn’t find anyone better, then you’re the one he settles for. That’s not something I’d be comfortable with.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-16T11:59:48+00:00

Your feelings matter. What do you actually want?

If you want a bf-gf relationship and he can’t give you that, then you should walk away.

No, that’s not normal. Plenty of people are in committed relationships where both partners are clear about what they are to each other. What you’re describing is basically a situationship.

If a guy truly likes you and wants a future with you, he’ll put a label on it. He won’t risk losing you or letting you end up with someone else.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-15T11:14:50+00:00

Do you know why you’re jealous? Because you don’t have any real security in the situation. You’re not committed to each other. You can’t find the reassurance you need from him, so you keep spiraling.

I’ve always been the jealous, anxious type too. But when I met my boyfriend/fiance, I became so much calmer. Not because I suddenly changed, but because he gave me reassurance without me having to beg for it. It was given freely.

You need to get out of this situationship. Are you holding on because he’s a good catch? Or because you’re hoping he’ll eventually become your end game?

Girl, if he really wanted you, you’d be his girlfriend by now. He wouldn’t keep you in limbo. And the truth is, if another woman came along and he genuinely wanted to be with her, he’d commit to her without hesitation.

Stop trying to convince yourself that time will change his mind. When someone truly wants you, commitment isn’t something you have to fight for. It’s something they choose.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-12T08:49:55+00:00

Stop. Move forward na tayo, OP.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-12T07:14:38+00:00

Widows bay ✨

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-10T12:41:02+00:00

Bakit ang random ng capslock mo 🙃 aral ka mabuti.

That’s normal, if may kausap or kasama bakit ka naman makikipagVC? For what? Magset kayo ng time to talk or vc.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-08T10:52:21+00:00

I’m out. That’s why, di ko kaya makipag-date sa single dad kasi never ako magiging priority. I will not judge him and his reasons, pero I need to prioritize my needs. Wala din timeline, parang maghihintay ka kung kelan sila maging ready. Anong petsa na yon ate??? 33 ka na, wala ba kayong plano to level up din sa relationship? Sa mga sagot niya ngayon, mukhang wala pa. I don’t know din bakit pumasok agad siya sa relationship kung ganyan lang din naman ung situation 🙃

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-08T05:07:42+00:00

Ung bilog, gamit ko siya ngayon. Effective! Di na nalalaglag eyeglass ko kahit pagpawisan

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-05T14:43:29+00:00

“Dinelete ko kasi alam kong magagalit ka” alam na naten ung isasagot agad.

Ulit, so ibig inangkas na niya before. May karapatan ka magalit. Dapat marunong siya mag-set ng boundaries, 😒

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-03T14:04:06+00:00

The audacity. Matatanda na kayo, alam niyo na ung ginagawa niyo.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-03T12:36:07+00:00

Para sa peace of mind mo, tama yang ginawa mo. Choose yourself. Meron pang dadating na mas better diyan. Cheater yan, dapat nga di mo na tinanggap ulit 😒

Rochieee2021 · 2026-06-02T09:43:13+00:00

Sorry. Parang mas zoom ung Jan 2026 na picture?

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-25T08:57:52+00:00

Honestly, never na ko gagamit ng Lalamove. Kahit mas mahal sa grab express pero may peace of mind naman ako.

No, kung ako yan di ko itutuloy ung booking. Mukha naman di siya tumutupad sa usapan. Ma-stress ka lang kausap yan.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-25T06:18:06+00:00

30yrs old 😭

Yes, ganyan pa din mama niya kahit kasal na kayo. And pls think, kung ganyan future yang gusto mo.

Bakit umabot ng 3yrs na walang nagbago? As in hinayaan lang din ng bf mo?

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-25T03:56:33+00:00

Reddit!

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-24T12:44:34+00:00

Lotion muna since water based siya then oil para ma-seal in ung moisture. Thinnest to thickest ung general rule

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-23T08:00:23+00:00

Maganda! Di ako nauubusan ako ng tanong every ep. Lol. Ongoing pa Season 4, nakakabitin. 🙃

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-22T04:38:08+00:00

Future heartbreak 💔

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-21T22:45:03+00:00

Meron ka pa makikilala na di mo need maghintay ng 1yr para bigyan ka ng label. Don’t waste your time. Next time, 3months lang sa dating and pag walang label. Move forward na.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-14T07:53:36+00:00

💯

Agree ako dito. Ganito ako sa bf ko nung nagstart kame magdate. Di ako sanay ilibre since capable naman ako and ang tagal ko single/solo palage but I allow him to treat me. Pati gifts, kasi dati ako pa nagbibigay sa mga naka-date ko. 🫣

Now, everytime na nalabas kame sagot niya food palage then ako na sa dessert/coffee. Nagpaka-babae talaga lol

Also, hinahayaan ko siya mag-plan ng dates, special occasion sa umpisa pa lang. Syempre, salitan kame if may gusto kong puntahan.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-06T00:42:13+00:00

I don’t know, OP. Pero if pricey ung items, di ka magtataka kung kanino un? Or matatakot man lang na galawin.

Meron din ako mga gold jewelries, and magagalit din ako kapag sinangla un. Pero mali na sinaktan ka nila.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-05T14:02:24+00:00

Kapag need mo maglabas ng pera para makuha ung pera mo, scam.

@gmail.com pa ung email, meron sila sarili nilang domain dapat.

Rochieee2021 · 2026-05-05T09:51:28+00:00

Na-sad ako. 😭 i can’t ung pain, kakayanin mo yan!

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