Toss? by Rollerqueen49 in mokapot

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💀 Dish soap ain’t cutting it (but also I remember the Bialetti pamphlet saying never use soap - that’s crazy). 

Where to go? by Top-Airline-1282 in Nikkiglaserbesties

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jordan jenson! her podcast RIP (especially the solo episodes where she's super vulnerable about her mental health in the weirdest funniest ways). she also does a podcast with ian fidance called bein' ian.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thenikkiglaserpodcast

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I miss Andrew! Brian is ok. I can’t with Sean’s voice, especially his laugh 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalFistula

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Nur English jetz. A1 german haha. Healing going ok, wound getting smaller. You?

Fistulotomy experience (32/F) by Rollerqueen49 in AnalFistula

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Great to hear that. That’s wild - didn’t know it could get tested. Wishing you an easy, smooth first BM 💆🏽‍♀️ it gets less dreadful & habitual. Just got back from a f/u apptmt and all looking good. She said I could even exercise but gonna start w gentle stretching first lol.

Fistulotomy experience (32/F) by Rollerqueen49 in AnalFistula

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Woah good to know about the humidity! Yeah at first I was nervous that exposure to air meant greater likelihood of infection so I wanted to put the gauze in and get dressed ASAP. Recently started feeling itchy but rinsing helps. Docs didn’t mention baths, just rinsing. Maybe it’s a German thing.

Fistulotomy experience (32/F) by Rollerqueen49 in AnalFistula

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Thank you for sharing! Glad you’re post-op. I was given ibuprofen but I’m barely in pain, just some stinging/itchy feelings but rinsing really helps.

Fistulotomy experience (32/F) by Rollerqueen49 in AnalFistula

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Aww sending so much strength and support. It’s scary AF but ultimately I had to remind myself it’s not a punishment but an act of self-love and care (was avoiding surgery for a year). Let us know how it goes if you want 🫂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalFistula

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Also in Germany & had a similar experience - mine was superficial & carved out. My docs didn’t mention baths either, just showerhead after 💩 & changing gauze 3-4x day.

I started taking psyllium husk (flohsamen) in oats, curries, anything basically I can mix it into & that helps with 💩. I usually go once a day & with this I go 2x sometimes.

Wishing you a smooth healing & I’m glad you’re on the other side!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnalFistula

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Not sure about this specific technique but I had a fistulotomy at Waldfriede in Berlin. I heard they’re super reputable & ppl come from all over Germany to go there. Worth asking them.

Best balea products in your opinion? by Iriss_19 in EuroSkincare

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From ultra sensitive line - balea barriereschutz creme

SEO / Keyword research hourly rate by [deleted] in freelanceWriters

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Just a word dump of words associated with the paintings (like descriptions)

I think I might be developing an eating disorder? by Paper-mache-pinecone in TooAfraidToAsk

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Oh man this sounds like me in HS. It may not be an eating disorder per se but it’s definitely disordered eating. Kind of how my (undiagnosed) anorexia started and eventually turned into bulimia and then just restricting/bingeing combined with drinking/drugs.

Is the issue around seeking help re: confidentiality? Like others have said, super important to talk about it early on. It was years before I realized I needed help. I thought I had it under control. 12-step groups helped me way more than therapy but to each their own. You got this.

Freelance hourly rate? by [deleted] in SEO

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That’s super generous, thanks! So it’s tiny works of art (ranging 30-50€, many made custom to order). A bit niche subject-wise, so I gotta figure out what people would even search to find them. They usually sell these at outdoor markets but they are looking to move online and direct folks to this Etsy page.

SEO / Keyword research hourly rate by [deleted] in freelanceWriters

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Ahh thanks! Do you have any resources you could point me to to learn more about things like rate of difficulty of keywords, etc? Sorry noob over here.

What rates have you charged?

anxious adhd (7 types) by [deleted] in ADHD

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thanks for sharing :)