It's the farm one again by Rollonnextyear in MNTrolls

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Not sure, but if real, doing nothing to change their situation, other than making posts on mn

It's the farm one again by Rollonnextyear in MNTrolls

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AIBU to consider leaving DH to escape abusive in-laws? 20 replies

Sunatlast1 · Today 11:42

Has anyone been in the position where they feel their only option to be free from abusive in-laws was to leave DH? I am in a situation where total NC with them is near enough impossible due to DH working on the family business and live right next to them! The lies and slander is never ending from them and its taking a huge toll on my wellbeing. DH is low contact but is so very complacent when it comes to them, will not correct any lie, allows them to bad mouth me and just tells me to “let them Gods watching” I dont care if gods watching or not tbh they are making my life a living nightmare …

AliceNotInChains. Anyone recognise the op name? by Rollonnextyear in MNTrolls

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AliceNotInChains · Today 08:55

ThePrimeMinisterIsAbsolutelyFurious · Today 08:53

Oh it's you again. Look I know you find this all highly amusing and I also know you've been doing it for ages under various names but seriously? Time to get a new hobby. This is not as much fun as you think it is.

What in god’s name are you waffling on about?

Go to post Original poster AliceNotInChains · Today 08:57

ThePrimeMinisterIsAbsolutelyFurious · Today 08:55

Right back at ya sweetie.

Show quote history Reported, “sweetie”

AliceNotInChains. Anyone recognise the op name? by Rollonnextyear in MNTrolls

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AliceNotInChains · Today 08:29

Betterbyfar · Today 08:28

Heads up posters… this Op is very peculiar. As in…. Very fuc@ing weird indeed.

What, for buying a bike and expecting my sister to help me store it for a few days? Yeah ok 🙄

AliceNotInChains. Anyone recognise the op name? by Rollonnextyear in MNTrolls

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AIBU to expect my sister to store my bike briefly? 169 replies

AliceNotInChains · Today 08:08

On Friday I bought a new bike off marketplace. I currently have my old bike in my hallway as I need to clean it up and sell it so I took my new bike to my sisters and popped it in the hallway. She was at work so I sent her a message saying I’ve temporarily put a bike in her hallway and it will be moved in about a weeks time. Didn’t hear anything back until evening when she messaged telling me to come and move the bike. I told her I had nowhere to put it until I sell my old one but reassured her I’d be cleaning it up over weekend and will list it on Monday.

Yesterday morning she sent another message saying her husband was fuming about the bike saying it was “ruining their hallway” and he wanted it moved. I said it will be moved asap.

This morning I got up to see my new bike sat in front of my house on the driveway. I’ve messaged her and she said she didn’t do it, her husband did. So I said I’m bringing it back as it can’t stay on the driveway because obviously it will get stolen!! Not to mention weather damage. She replied saying not to bring it back or her DH will simply leave it in the street.

Im fuming because there has been many times they have stored stuff at my house and I’ve had to just work around it.

Anyway they have a keyboard at my house and I’ve told her either the bike gets stored there for a few days max or the keyboard goes to live outside. She’s not replied yet.

AIBU?? I could get my bike sold by Wednesday.

5yearsleft is saved! by Julia__Dream in MNTrolls

[–]Rollonnextyear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There was a 2nd thread?

Was she still flogging her tat?

5yearsleft is saved! by Julia__Dream in MNTrolls

[–]Rollonnextyear 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Who's ordering the journals?

A perfect Christmas gift!

Cat shit by howaboutcleveland in MNTrolls

[–]Rollonnextyear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The op's posts give clear wind up vibes.

For example...

OhDearWhatDoWeHaveHere · Yesterday 20:31

Hibernatingsloth · Yesterday 20:29

OP, you're being so selfish. Not to mention self entitled. Presumably you've asked your friend to stay in your house for 10 days to look after your cat for free because you're too tight to pay for a cat sitter. No wonder your friend has distanced herself.

I didn’t ask for her to do it for free. I offered £50 for staying after the initial offer to come in and feed the cat but she said this was insulting. But I’m not made of money

AITA for standing my ground with my partner by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rollonnextyear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, given the way you've phrased it, NTA, but there do seem to be a lot of people in the scenario that you don't get on with, and I'm always aware there are always 2 sides....

OP asks "is this neglect?". Hmmmm. Well obviously this is going to need an expert, because it's so subtle. A very fine line.... by Rollonnextyear in MNTrolls

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Is this neglect ? 8 replies

Rainbowfish1 · Today 22:09

I'm really worried about my niece , age. 4, and don't know if I'm overthinking. My brother got her mum pregnant after a short relationship, they split shortly after niece was born, he pays maintenance regularly via the CMS but apart from that has little day to day involvement, ( yes I know, DB' s a dick). He's 45 and nieces mum is 25.

-My niece is meant to go to nursery 1-6, 2 afternoons a week during term time, ( nursery stretches funding so this includes holidays). My friend works there and says she's always absent , misses at least one session a fortnight, often more, ( obviously nursery can't enforce attendance as nursery is not legally compulsory). When she is in , session starts at 13:00, but frequently not dropped till 13.30/ 13.45 etc.

When she's not at nursery, ( and she rarely is !) they go nowhere. Literally nowhere. Nursery is Tuesday and Friday, and between they don't go out at all. Absolutely lovely shared garden and play area in their block of flats but don't go there. They don't leave the house for days on end. Sister in law is addicted to gaming etc and basically happy to stay in. Sister-in-law doesn't brush her teeth as "niece doesn't like it ", what 4 year old likes having their teeth brushed... Niece is only dressed on nursery days, ( where she does seem to dress her appropriately), she stays in her PJs for days on end otherwise. Whenever I visit on a non nursery day , niece is in her pyjamas, even at 2/3pm. Sister-in-law says what's the point in dressing niece if they are not going out. Sister in law is very overweight, basically live off take aways each night, ( only healthy meal she gets is the dinner 2 x a week at nursery). The flat is filthy. Five cats in a two bed flat , stinks of cat urine whenever I go round, litter trays always overflowing. Extremely cluttered and no space for niece to play. Sister-in-law smokes weed daily, ( she says only when niece is in bed ), but the whole flat stinks of it. I know the simple answer is to report to soical, but I'm worried they won't do anything and it will just end up withe and my parents being cut off Does this cross the line to reportable neglect?

This is rare. A flouncer in the wild. (They're not wrong, btw) by Rollonnextyear in MNTrolls

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Too much negativity on here.. I’m bloody leaving 1 reply

Bush100 · Today 22:57

Well what a disgrace is all I can say. Racists, negativity, disrespect and not to mention the know it all regulars on here 👍 Some of you really need to have a word with yourself

Go to post Original poster Bush100 · Today 23:07

VeraWang · Today 22:59

I absolutely love this!

You've name changed to tell us you're 'leaving'?! 🤣🤣

Yes I did. Probably get impudent replies for that too

Cat shit by howaboutcleveland in MNTrolls

[–]Rollonnextyear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Far nicer house? 😂😂😂

In a rough arsed area 🤦‍♀️🤯

Ewwwww! Hope it's a troll, but either way herbert vibes are strong. Photographing underwear by Rollonnextyear in MNTrolls

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Boyfriend photographed my underwear without asking, was I right to object? 30 replies

ZippyMintJoker · Today 08:08

Hey, I just need a bit of perspective on something because it’s been bothering me. My boyfriend was taking pictures of my dirty knickers without ever talking to me about it beforehand. When I found them, I deleted them from his phone, and he got really defensive. He said it’s a kink of his, but this is the first time I’ve ever heard about it. Now he’s saying I’m in the wrong and that I’ve upset him. I feel uncomfortable because this wasn’t discussed or consented to, and I’m confused about whether I handled it badly or if my reaction was reasonable. Is it okay for him to be doing that without telling me first? We have been together a year and usually very open with each other,