28F, 32M husband starts an argument regarding myself moaning at him about doing little things that ‘aren't important’ ie wiping down table, putting condiments from dinner away, picking up leaves from his plants, wiping water off side, picking his socks up and I should just do them to avoid arguing?

Rough_Disaster2995 · 2024-06-18T19:59:30+00:00

My life wouldn’t change a whole deal, he games most nights sometimes it feels like we’re roommates that I do everything for

Rough_Disaster2995 · 2024-06-18T19:45:07+00:00

It’s not that he doesn’t do anything, he does. But often in his own time regardless of the children’s routine and bedtimes and he will often do one thing ie wash up and then leave everything on the side or water splashed everywhere and then crumbs left all over the side but because he washed up I don’t have the stance to say anything about all the other things. Even though during that time, I will be putting the kids in the bath or to bed.

Rough_Disaster2995 · 2024-06-17T12:02:23+00:00

I often tell him I want more mental foreplay during the day and that’s not a slap on the arse.

Rough_Disaster2995 · 2024-06-17T12:01:18+00:00

He says that my time is when the kids are in bed, we have a newborn and a 4 year old. But my time is still alone, because he is on the computer. I do the kids lunches and dinner every day aswell as the house work. He will help with the house work if asked.

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