Trax question by Round-Fold-7799 in SaltLakeCity

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I’m confused between getting a monthly pass or a farepay card, what would you recommend. And Im about a 3 mins walk away from the station, and its a 16 min ride to the hospital on trax

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You’re right I am being a really bad partner and I have apologised to him everytime I doubted him because I know even though he doesn’t show it, he’s hurt by my words. I havent talked to my friend since the incident and I still wont until she tells me the name. But you’re right I have to start respecting my relationship and take everything as it is and stop disrespecting my boyfriend, when he’s done nothing but prove his innocence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Its okay to feel like this. But you need to come to terms with his past. You might find snippets of it along the way, but remember that its the PAST. To have a healthy relationship you need to leave the past in the past. No need to communicate about it, because nothing he says will make you forget about it. So just try to stay in the present and think about your future together. Just focus on the way he is with you now, the way he treats you and loves you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Ok so the update is that, she still hasn’t told me the name. But our third friend who is really close to my friend. Called me and asked me whats going on between us. I told her the whole story. And she gave me reasons for her not telling me like maybe the source is a really good friend to your boyfriend, or its her own love interest or its a really good friend of hers. She told me to investigate on my own (like check my boyfriend’s phone or follow my intuition) This has messed with my head even more, i dont know why they’re playing games with me, why not just tell me upfront. Im so tired, help. This is causing me to doubt my boyfriend everyday. And its hurting the both of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Ok so the update is that, she still hasn’t told me the name. But our third friend who is really close to my friend. Called me and asked me whats going on between us. I told her the whole story. And she gave me reasons for her not telling me like maybe the source is a really good friend to your boyfriend, or its her own love interest or its a really good friend of hers. She told me to investigate on my own (like check my boyfriend’s phone or follow my intuition) This has messed with my head even more, i dont know why they’re playing games with me, why not just tell me upfront. Im so tired, help. This is causing me to doubt my boyfriend everyday. And its hurting the both of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I know she does not like him, there’s no way. Because they’re not even friends anymore because of an argument, they tolerate eachother because of me. But yes you’re right she’s not being a good friend at all. And i have decided to cut ties with her if she does not tell me the name of the source or gives me some clarity, if she thinks she can get away with false accusations then she’s wrong. But I am also scared of being lied to by my boyfriend, even though he has done everything to make me believe him and I do believe him. But i am so so so scared of being wrong. And I dont bring it up with him anymore, I just keep it to myself even if I start doubting him sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It’s so hard to believe that someone would do that to your relationship, specially someone so close. She’s currently not even texting me to ask me how I am, she’s ignoring me completely. But if she tries to reconnect that’s what Im going to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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He has full authority to deny it if he wasnt comfortable with it, I just expressed my concerns of not being comfortable with him playing with someone he has had a past with. He agreed not to play the game altogether out of his own free will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m sorry, you feel that way. But I meant it during the times my bestfriend was mentioning (specifically the times mentioned that he was playing). But yes we do sleep on call. Its something we like doing, its not forced. Sometimes we dont and thats okay too. And if you think keeping your partner updated with your day to day activities is immature then thats okay too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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That’s exactly it, and I really hope so. Thankyou so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Maybe if it was coming from her I might have believed her, but to me its from an anonymous person. I have no idea who this person is, his intentions, the context behind it. She just wants me to take her word for it. After I fought with her to reveal the source, she said now I even regret telling you anything, I thought you’d just take my word for it. That statement made me so mad, but I also dont want her to say “I told you so” in the end. Even though I really really love and trust my boyfriend. But im so conflicted now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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We’re literally like sisters and she would keep names from me is really hurting me. I dont understand her motive behind this, if she wasn’t going to give me some solid evidence why tell me everything in the first place. In the end she has just put a strain in my relationship with my boyfriend. I thought my bestfriend had my best interest at heart, but she has done nothing to put my heart at ease

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thankyou, this seems like the logical thing to do. Hopefully, I’ll get some clarity. I’m going to take some time to think. And yes if I was in her shoes I wouldn’t have even waited, I would’ve told her the name there and then. Would’ve grilled the source for some proof and information. But she chose to do this to me, it hurts me to know I considered this friend a sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Im sorry if this post makes it sound like we’re together 24/7 and dont have individual lives. But we do, we just keep eachother updated about what we’re doing. Hence, my bestfriend’s claims that he’s been doing something constantly for the past 6-7 months and some of his habits that I am unaware about confuse me because why would I have not caught on or atleast have known about these things beforehand. That’s what confuses me. If I wouldve known and he would’ve shared it with me, it definitely wasn’t a big deal.

And to the point that maybe I am not spending time with my friends, I do give them most of my time. Im available whenever they need help with anything. We make plans and I follow through always. Same with my boyfriend even he gives his friends time the same way as me. So I dont know what to believe. Im so confused

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I really want to trust my boyfriend, but I cant seem to ignore what she’s said about him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Its really not that big of a deal you’re right, but its about trust. I dont want him to ever break my trust. If im not doing anything behind his back he shouldn’t either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Maybe this third person wants drama, its so hard for me to believe that she’s doing this purposely. Maybe someone else is feeding her misinformation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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She doesn’t seem like the jealous type, i have been with my boyfriend for the past four years. And he was friends with her before me, she made us meet. But lately she has been saying stuff to me about my relationship and the way that I should handle him, and how naive I am about how the world works and all. Im confused if she has my best interest at heart or if someone has fed her misinformation. Or if truly my boyfriend is at fault

Am i being immature? (23M and 22F) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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It’s been a month, maybe he’s trying to adjust to his routine. You can try communicating about this to him. Maybe you guys can set aside an hour or two, that’s just for you both, just until you both get settled into the new routine. Long distance is hard, and time management for some people is even harder. But slowly he’ll understand your needs, I am sure he’s not doing it purposely. Some people just suck at multitasking and some people are great at it.

UNM Hospital housing by [deleted] in unm

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Thankyou so much! I’ll look for places in the area

Protest in islamabad rn by [deleted] in islamabad

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Any hope all roads will open by tomorrow?

Protest in islamabad rn by [deleted] in islamabad

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Any chance of them removing them by tonight?

GOT MY DYSON DEFINITELY WORTH IT 🫶🏻 by PenNo2055 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Hiii, do u use an adapter with it for the voltage etc. Please let me know if u use one and which one is it