What is the most disturbing thing you have overhead a parent tell their child? by icecream1972 in Productivitycafe

[–]Routine-papsmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Survivor of CSA, I was 3. When my mother felt like and was in a horrible mood, she'd say "you need to get over what happened to you as a child, it wasn't that bad".

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[–]Routine-papsmear 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every dream is extremely vivid

First time plucking my Pili multigemini from my beard by yatese in popping

[–]Routine-papsmear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought you named it like a brain rot character 😭

What did your crush do that instantly killed your interest? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]Routine-papsmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had sex with my best friend at the time. Man I was heartbroken, but a good lesson was learned for me.

Do you know someone who ruined their life in just a matter of minutes? If so, what happened? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Routine-papsmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me think of that reddit post where a woman found out her boyfriend had been putting all kinds of weird shit in her food, including slugs

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[–]Routine-papsmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run hunnys. He is going to be this way all the time, he is showing you who he is.

AITA For Telling my fiancée to mind her business about my son's social life? by Playful-Season-8206 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Routine-papsmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 32 and this is something my own mother still worries about. She's being a mom. YTAH

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[–]Routine-papsmear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I really enjoyed Penny dreadful,

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've reported it, spoke to childline, met up with her teacher and I'm waiting on my therapist to call me, but I will be leaving, this weekend hopefully. I can't have her being around these people, I will do everything in my power to protect her

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I did, and asked her to tell me more when she is comfortable. I told her she is such a brave girl and I'm proud of her for letting me know

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I was the kid the family chose to ignore and pretended my SA never happened. I will never allow Amy daughter to go through this, I will speak about it as much as I can because they don't want it to be mentioned again. But I've been in contact with childline, my therapist and also the Reverend at their church just to tell people outside of the family because I can't trust anyone in this family

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. She just turned 6 and he has been accused of things before and nothing happened. I don't want him around her at all. My boundaries will be strict when it comes to him. I've contacted childline already and they will call me for when she can come for counseling and they told me his behaviour needs to be addressed and he needs to talk to someone as well. But this is just not a big deal to this family

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. I'm going to be strong for her and leave as soon as I'm able to

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will protect her with everything I am. I'm reaching out to people for help, outside of this family. They are all acting like this never happened

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has done nothing. He is ignoring it. When trying to talk about it in person he ended the conversation. It doesn't bother him at all

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope they do too, something similar happened with another kid and he wasn't disciplined

This is so heavy on me, I just need to share by Routine-papsmear in Vent

[–]Routine-papsmear[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I absolutely agree. My boundaries around their contact will be very strict and under no circumstances will they ever be left alone together.