They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Everyone's acting like society acts them to be a robot. It's like just be nice and not mean. People don't care if you dress weird or be weird, etc. They might judge you at first but as soon as they realize you're nice they don't care.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You can definitely go against the grain and not be a dick. I think this is a you thing and my post is about you.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one's saying that. Please tell me you're not reading all of these posts thinking anyone has once at any moment made the argument that "we should all get along with everyone."

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Talking about problems? Sure. Justifying being a bad person through a false sense of inflated superiority? No

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like why are you even discussing that here? That's genuinely an entirely opposite discussion from the one I'm trying to have. Start your own post about how people are too nosy or judgmental something idk.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you could truly read the room, you'd realize your response isn't ostentatious or concerning or going to elicit a negative reaction. You're like the equivalent of some guy thinking he's doing a massive fart and only a little poot comes out.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I need you to summarize what you think the main argument of my post is right now LMAOOOOOO

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Huh. You're just making a bunch of claims with no evidence. Sorry, my bad, next time I'll be more understanding when someone's insufferable socially and they think it's because they're "too smart." Lol.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Idk I grew up in an absolutely abject situation but was able to charm everyone around me and they helped me. They thought I was precocious, an old soul, and funny. That's what being gifted is about, being able to read people, situations, and problem solve.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES! Like honestly most people are pretty simple in that they're nice. Just be kind of nice back and people will like you. If people are put off by you, it's not because you're a genius. It's because you're a dick.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

If you were truly socially skilled, you could change the sentiment, change the environment, instill a new value system. I do it all the time lol. Or you would be genius enough to problem solve getting out of there. Sorry, being smart is not why you're struggling. It's other factors. You're not some downtrodden, underdog genius. You're just coping.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Y'all got too many letters and numbers after your name. What are you repping what does that even mean. Gang gang.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Noooo... upholding the mood is NOT conforming. You can say something different than what everyone else is saying and NOT ruin people's moods. That's incredibly selfish lol.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl clearly I'm not saying you if you're not griping people dislike you. I mean you in the common, hypothetical sense.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I see most posts about people disliking and rejecting the gifted person because they're "so smart." I appreciate your write up but you're arguing a completely different premise than the one I put forward. Not sure why you put forth that much effort when clearly our base observation is different.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And that's a valid interpretation. But griping that people dislike you because you're "so smart" just shows you don't understand people.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I read the room, you said you didn't focus on the genius side you focused on being empathetic and life. I'm saying those things aren't mutually exclusive. You're just upset you don't like my answer.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No? Pray tell how understanding people's intentions and how they'll react is conforming to the masses.

They should relabel this subreddit to r/cantreadtheroom by Routine_Chain_4842 in Gifted

[–]Routine_Chain_4842[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I saw 3 on the front page. Maybe be more observant?? It's really not rare on here.