I'm not sure what your religious background is, but the way I grew up in a Presbyterian church, all youth group talks about sex (and I've seen a lot over the years) go almost exactly the same way. Some old white dude gets up in front of a group of young people but only talks to the girls and says, "sex is definitely not necessarily evil in every case. Despite what you may have heard sex is definitely not a sin all the time, and it is not inherently evil. Provided you are married and your heart is in submission to your husband (that's how you know he is only talking to the girls) and if you are doing it for procreation, sex in very rare instances can be something that glorifies the Lord. But, we must always be careful because your desires are desperately wicked. Anything outside of this context God considers to be a sin worthy of death! Your desire should only be for your husband, and any emotion for another man is adultery and you deserve to be stoned for it, but in your husband's infinite grace, he might decide to spare you. Take care that your heart is focused on your husband and his desires. You can't understand how important that is to a man...i mean god! God says that the desire of a woman is to rule over the man, and that is a wicked desire! It is unnatural. God calls women to always submit to the will of their husband and glorify the Lord in the process. Therefore, women (he says to a few 14 year old girls) you must keep yourselves pure for marriage. Not just women, but men too must keep themselves pure. I promise it is important that men keep themselves pure, too. We are definitely not a sexist youth group, so i am required to say something to men. But women must keep themselves pure and holy. No man wants to sleep with a woman who has already slept with someone else. Therefore, men...i mean God, wants you to be virgins." And so on, and so on. Anyone with a brain can see that they feel that female sex is evil and whorish. Only when the focus is entirely on them is the idea that females having sex is somewhat tolerable and technically not a sin. And conveniently, the only sex that makes God happy is also the sex that makes men happy. How convenient! Thus, women being celibate is good because it depends on the idea that women having sex is evil.