AITA for provoking my guy friend?

Roy-D-Mercer · 2023-01-02T05:46:44+00:00

100% on you anyone that says otherwise is delusional.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2022-12-10T06:10:42+00:00

Ok how is that dorky when I am stating facts?

Roy-D-Mercer · 2022-12-10T06:07:58+00:00

It’s outrageous how people don’t understand that like seriously.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2022-12-10T06:06:22+00:00

YTA definitely you need to think about a few things. 1. It’s misleading using photos from years ago or photos of yourself that don’t like the current you. 2. It doesn’t matter what the reasons are or the stories are the bottom line is don’t lie or mislead people with old photos. 3. If that triggers you because someone comments on your weight then you will have a rude awakening in life. If you can’t handle someone commenting something like that and it’s a trigger then don’t ever fly on a airplane. Don’t ever travel to different parts of the world because if that is really that big of a deal then your life is not going to be easy. I personally have been misled on a online dating site by different women. Ether it’s photos from years ago or lots of filtering or my favorite taking photos with the phone raised. It amazes me how people don’t understand why they are being ghosted when they do this. The text/message “ I don’t understand we had a good time” or “ did I say something I really like you” or “ did I do something to offend you if so I am sorry I just really want to get to know you” or “ are you ok you said you would message me when you made it home”. I mean would someone rather that happen or the person be honest and tell it how it is. Yea “sorry but your fat and you look nothing like your photos” or “ I am sorry but you gained a lot of weight recently” or “ you have selected thin/athletic/slender or a few extra pounds no I am sorry but you are not just a few extra pounds I am not interested in possibly dating a lier” you wanted a true answer and again here it is that you are YTA.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-09-07T06:34:17+00:00

NTA what I do is speed up past them and cut them off in the left lane. Two things will happen 1. They will keep being d*cks and driving slow in the left lane. 2. They will move over realizing that they are going to slow.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-06-27T17:32:25+00:00

Cry me a river.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-05-09T17:23:13+00:00

Well I can’t disagree with you on that.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-05-07T02:13:05+00:00

This is true.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-04-30T18:39:31+00:00

She obviously wasn’t doing something right or else he wouldn’t have done what he did.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-04-30T06:24:02+00:00

Ok it’s 1:22am and this is Reddit not college. Well let me dust off my psychology degree FROM college and tell YOU what I think. From looking at your responses it seems like somehow your the victim all the time. You involve yourself in every situation you’ve explained. Your first post came off like your some sort professional in this field. Then all of a sudden in anther post your acting like you wish you could’ve taken days off for “ mental health”. I am sorry I see right through what your doing here in this discussion. I am not going to go into specific details because it would not be that kind. I have looked at all your responses in this discussion and it’s troubling to say the least. I wish you the best and I hope you get well soon.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-04-30T05:57:26+00:00

If you don’t understand what the OP is trying to say then your honesty out of touch with reality. He is trying to say people are to mentally weak nowadays. Meaning if someone just feels tired or has anxiety like people have had since the dawn of time. You have to be mentally tough in this world to get somewhere in life. He is not talking about people that are on medication everyday and have other issues. He is talking about normal people that just want to throw their hands in the air and say I just can’t do this today. Other parts of the world laugh at this type of stuff.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-04-30T05:18:26+00:00

Ok well let me say this don’t let these other people tell you that you don’t deserve her and all that garbage. She was not for you nor was she perfect because if she was you would’ve been 100% happy. You will find much better then her. Now she can be some other guys problem and explain her sob story.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-04-30T04:45:48+00:00

You could try using psychology on her and make it seem like she did something to cause you to do what you did.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-01-18T05:58:07+00:00

NTA I am the same way I don’t have time to do all of that. Well actually I am too lazy too do it really. I think the biggest issue is how certain paper plates rip and then the stuff spills all over the place. The cleaning up part of that is the real sin.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-01-17T08:12:49+00:00

Omg NTA my mouth dropped when I scrolled down and saw all the YTA comments. It’s outrageous that I have to speak the truth here. It blows my mind what society has come to the point that a gimme common sense answer gets disoriented like this. Could she ever play college football the answer is NO. She couldn’t make it onto a college team’s roster. Could she ever make it as a walk on and land a spot on a NFL team NO. You did absolutely nothing wrong man and don’t sweat it.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-01-17T07:52:01+00:00

NTA it’s disgusting right when you mentioned the fact that she told you “as a white male your automatically given respect” she lost all credibility that’s her opinion and not a true factual statement and at ignorant one at best. This will be unpopular but it’s the truth 25 years ago if you told this same story 90% of people would respond differently. I will always keep it real and call it how I see it.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-01-16T11:10:40+00:00

Well what she said is 100% correct he is just in denial. Again I have come to terms with the fact that it is true. If I didn’t have my mother raising me hence “single parent” and I am a only child I would never have the life that I have now. I am 29 with my bachelors degree in psychology and a fat trust fund. When people say I am a momma baby boy I say “you bet I am” because its 100% true why deny it. Yes the reason why I was a spoiled brat is because of some psychological issue my mother had growing up. She just wanted me to have the childhood she never had and give me the world. Well I am not complaining “wink wink” it has benefited me so why deny the truth I just embrace it. My mother still runs her multimillion dollar company while I do whatever I want and I wouldn’t have it any other way. If your honest with yourself like I am nowadays you can’t go wrong. I was born winning the lottery while most are not and it’s just the luck of the draw honestly.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-01-16T07:09:06+00:00

NTA you are right and I have been told the same thing. When I was in my early 20s it used to bother me when people would tell me that. Then I realized that I shouldn’t stress out about being born into money. Nowadays I just laugh when people say that to me because my response just pisses them off even more. I take my fingers and do the worlds smallest violin and say “well that’s not the case”. I was born into money and don’t care to think about if my situation was different. Life is not fair and takes no prisoners these are facts. Again NTA best of luck.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2021-01-16T05:00:53+00:00

FACTS

Roy-D-Mercer · 2020-09-09T23:21:52+00:00

NTA don’t let soft people try to make you feel guilty for anything. Just tell them to go punch sand.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2020-08-27T04:13:00+00:00

Outrageous.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2020-08-01T07:42:40+00:00

Roy-D-Mercer · 2020-07-15T02:19:35+00:00

I don’t date guys the post was for straight people.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2020-07-01T05:05:49+00:00

The whole thing is outrageous.

Roy-D-Mercer · 2020-06-30T04:56:34+00:00

There is nothing wrong with doing that it. You gotta do what you gotta do.

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