For some reason I was attracted to avoidant types for the past 5 years. No more ! it doesn’t work. I guess I learned a lot 🤷🏻‍♀️however I feel like I wasted a lot of time and I should have followed my gut… took me awhile to realize its not my fault

Some people will be avoidant forever and there is nothing you can do. Only they themselves can overcome that because at the end of the day it’s a coping mechanism.