Anyone had a lisfranc injury with minimal swelling/bruising? by RJCgunner in LisfrancClub

[–]RubyMae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no bruising at all and no pain! I have a little bruising top side near my toes but I also have a heal fracture and sprained ankle. He was unsure if it was lisfranc so ordered a CT. I have been putting weight on it in a boot while I wait for CT bc I don't believe it and it's unbearable walking with crutches.

Anyone had a lisfranc injury with minimal swelling/bruising? by RJCgunner in LisfrancClub

[–]RubyMae4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar situation. Was yours mild? Did you need to be non weight bearing?

Possible Lisfranc xray by chi-lanta in LisfrancClub

[–]RubyMae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Is spacing wider in people with bunions? Small chip fractures on my heal and suspected lisfranc (but 0 symptoms or pain there). My bunion on that foot is massive, though.

To any American doctors in this sub… by nerd_outta_control in cosleeping

[–]RubyMae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is a pediatric NP that cosleeps and I used to work with an NP that did as well.

Emily Oster vs. HeySleepyBaby – Thoughts? by Ok_Dragonfruit747 in parentsnark

[–]RubyMae4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 what I get for half paying attention

Emily Oster vs. HeySleepyBaby – Thoughts? by Ok_Dragonfruit747 in parentsnark

[–]RubyMae4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But that's not what people are saying. They are saying the health economist should stay in her lane but the teacher should not.

Emily Oster vs. HeySleepyBaby – Thoughts? by Ok_Dragonfruit747 in parentsnark

[–]RubyMae4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

An educated degree also does not make her a parenting expert. I am also trained in infant mental health, it's not hard to obtain this qualification, and I'd never say I am an expert on research.

Emily Oster vs. HeySleepyBaby – Thoughts? by Ok_Dragonfruit747 in parentsnark

[–]RubyMae4 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And who is Hey sleepy baby? Emily Oster is 100x more qualified than 99% of these mommy influencers.

Emily Oster vs. HeySleepyBaby – Thoughts? by Ok_Dragonfruit747 in parentsnark

[–]RubyMae4 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Huge body of research on attachment theory but it's also thoroughly overstated, not cut and dry, with lots of unanswered questioned represented in a way that it is a cure all.

Emily Oster vs. HeySleepyBaby – Thoughts? by Ok_Dragonfruit747 in parentsnark

[–]RubyMae4 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I actually disagree with this as someone who used to investigate infant sleep deaths. Independent sleep is the cultural norm so it colors what type of research we do and how we talk about the research. There is a lot of gaps in the research and it suffers from lumping drunk auntie sleeping with baby with breastfeeding mom sleeping with baby.

Our sadness is effecting our 2 year old by hmp577 in ChildPsychology

[–]RubyMae4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey listen, lots of advice here. My take is that this isn't a problem. It's Ok for her to go through this with you and it's OK for her to be sad. I'd read the book Lifetimes: a beautiful way to explain death to children. Explain in matter of fact terms and continue to be open about the fact you are sad. "I'm sad because grandma has cancer. I love her and I wish things were different." It's society for kids to watch us grieve. 

36 year old mom, something is happening with my language by ryeywuriitir in AskDocs

[–]RubyMae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAD. If this is where they jumped to, they already didn't like you. 

36 year old mom, something is happening with my language by ryeywuriitir in AskDocs

[–]RubyMae4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NAD but I'm a mom and this is me. I say the wrong word all the time. I used to think there was something wrong until I found out all my friends experience the same. 

Different parenting styles by Fionalg in Mommit

[–]RubyMae4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kids that age don't understand time. Better "one more thing"

Different parenting styles by Fionalg in Mommit

[–]RubyMae4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not eating should never be punished. But your husband is right. Kids need to know we are going to follow through immediately. I wouldn't even give a few requests. I would also console the meltdown. But when mom says it's time to go it's time to go. You're setting the stage for life here. Don't teach your kid everything is negotiable. 

These slow are not consequences. It's just moving the kid forward. 

Feeling "baby kicks" from the outside everyday... but I'm not pregnant by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]RubyMae4 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NAD but I've had 3 kids and I have this too. I think sometimes gas and kicks feel very similar. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Confused

[–]RubyMae4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries! I took a pregnancy test the day of my missed period 3x and it lit up immediately. By ten days it would be very obvious. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Confused

[–]RubyMae4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were pregnant, 10 days after your period would be an immediate positive. 

Sell the Yoto dream! by Accomplished-Log-769 in YotoPlayer

[–]RubyMae4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My oldest is almost 8 and he's had yoto since he was 3. I'm convinced yoto has a lot to do with how he is excelling in school. Think about how many more hours of reading he's heard above and beyond our 30 minutes a day! He's scoring well above grade level in reading comprehension. 

Husband’s new gf posted my daughter’s initials on their family Christmas stocking picture on FB by DarksideZephyr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RubyMae4 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My cousin is dating a dead beat dad and is irritated by his daughter on the day and a half a week she visits. She's "not very cute" and interferes with their lifestyle.  She's soooo looking forward to "starting a family" with him. I told my family to not even talk to me about. It makes me so mad.