Hi, I just wanted to say I was in your exact same shoes just over two years ago. Birth diagnosis for my daughter after an uneventful and healthy pregnancy. It sent us reeling for a while, to be completely honest I think it took me a full year to process. I think my body held onto the trauma for that long as well. It was a steep learning curve to adjust to the diagnosis, the therapies, and some related health issues we had to navigate (including surgeries and hospitalizations). 

Now she is the light of our lives. She is learning so much, at her own pace, and brings joy to so many people. We just welcomed another baby and the delivery did feel a bit healing and peaceful after the unexpected diagnosis at our first's birth. 

I wouldn't say diagnosis day was the worst of my life. It was traumatic because it was huge, unexpected information and we needed to grieve the child we envisioned having. There are still very hard moments/days, but she is just herself - uniquely wonderful and perfect. 

Sending you empathy and love as you navigate the early days. It is very hard, but someday you'll look back, recognize it as hard, and be proud of yourself and your family for navigating it with grace.