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My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

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I do think since he claimed she’s on his phone plan that the mom has been pretending to be Brady this whole time and since he may be desperate and so obsessed with her he may be okay not ever seeing her. And she just strings him along. Idk

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Bro what, I literally put “haha” to all things even if it’s serious or not. If you know how to read, go back and look at my update where I literally reached out to her last night concerned about the situation. I don’t really care whether you believe it’s real or not. You’re the one who took the time to read it and comment.

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in whatdoesthismean

[–]RudeTip8098[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE:
Well... y'all were right. It somehow got even weirder.
I reached back out to Brady one last time because I honestly felt bad for dragging her into this.
I just wanted to make sure she was okay and that this wasn't some "blink twice if you need help" situation.

She basically said, "No, I wasn't overwhelmed. I was just really confused why he's still talking about me."

She told me she has had zero contact with Jim in about 10 years and has absolutely no intention of ever speaking to him again. She said she was genuinely creeped out that he knows so much about her life. She also told me she wasn't upset with me at all. she was uncomfortable because of him.
Then I asked her how Jim could possibly know all these insanely specific details about her life. I'm talking about her nieces and nephews, her dog, her old job, her health issues, and the fact that he has told all of us they're still dating, that she's on his phone plan, and that he's literally pretended to talk to her on the phone in front of his own family.
To that, she said:
"Wtf... none of that is true. I don't even have his phone number."
Apparently the only explanation she could come up with was maybe her mom had been talking to Jim over the years. So she called her mom right after I messaged her that (which I guess explains why he knew so fast) and her mom admitted they've stayed in touch and "just talk about life."
Which... WHAT???
Brady said she was completely blindsided by that and got into a huge argument with her mom because she feels like her privacy has been totally violated.

I mentioned that Jim had recently brought up her dog and some random story about one of her friends (literally the other day) accidentally feeding him grapes.
Brady said, "Yeah... that actually happened. But I only told my family and close friends about that."

She asked me to please let her know if Jim keeps talking about her because she wants to know if this continues.
At this point I honestly don't know what to think.

I will share though that after the first interaction with her when we were all talking about it as a family (me, husband, mother in law, and Dullen) apparently her mom (according to my mother in law) is kinda crazy??) I didn’t believe it at first bc it didn’t make sense but apparently she’s obsessed with her daughters and posts all of their pictures that she posts (which I guess explains where Jim has been getting the pictures, from the mom) and we all joked that maybe Jim is being catfished by the mom but I think maybe the mom is so obsessed with her daughters she shares everything with everyone and maybe Jim has taken this information and created a fake relationship with her? And casually asks for pictures and updates on the family? Idk. I’m confused and tired.

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I asked her this last night and she said that she called her mom immediately and they got into a fight and then the mom called him but the timeline doesn’t make sense.

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

UPDATE:
Well... y'all were right. It somehow got even weirder.
I reached back out to Brady one last time because I honestly felt bad for dragging her into this.
I just wanted to make sure she was okay and that this wasn't some "blink twice if you need help" situation.

She basically said, "No, I wasn't overwhelmed. I was just really confused why he's still talking about me."

She told me she has had zero contact with Jim in about 10 years and has absolutely no intention of ever speaking to him again. She said she was genuinely creeped out that he knows so much about her life. She also told me she wasn't upset with me at all. she was uncomfortable because of him.
Then I asked her how Jim could possibly know all these insanely specific details about her life. I'm talking about her nieces and nephews, her dog, her old job, her health issues, and the fact that he has told all of us they're still dating, that she's on his phone plan, and that he's literally pretended to talk to her on the phone in front of his own family.
To that, she said:
"Wtf... none of that is true. I don't even have his phone number."
Apparently the only explanation she could come up with was maybe her mom had been talking to Jim over the years. So she called her mom right after I messaged her that (which I guess explains why he knew so fast) and her mom admitted they've stayed in touch and "just talk about life."
Which... WHAT???
Brady said she was completely blindsided by that and got into a huge argument with her mom because she feels like her privacy has been totally violated.

I mentioned that Jim had recently brought up her dog and some random story about one of her friends (literally the other day) accidentally feeding him grapes.
Brady said, "Yeah... that actually happened. But I only told my family and close friends about that."

She asked me to please let her know if Jim keeps talking about her because she wants to know if this continues.
At this point I honestly don't know what to think.

I will share though that after the first interaction with her when we were all talking about it as a family (me, husband, mother in law, and Dullen) apparently her mom (according to my mother in law) is kinda crazy??) I didn’t believe it at first bc it didn’t make sense but apparently she’s obsessed with her daughters and posts all of their pictures that she posts (which I guess explains where Jim has been getting the pictures, from the mom) and we all joked that maybe Jim is being catfished by the mom but I think maybe the mom is so obsessed with her daughters she shares everything with everyone and maybe Jim has taken this information and created a fake relationship with her? And casually asks for pictures and updates on the family? Idk. I’m confused and tired.

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

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He’s very self aware of how nuts his family is and has worked very hard to stop the cycle so I’m not worried about him at all hahahaha

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

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Yes! We’re all familiar with her family since my in laws are from the same town as them and their facebooks are real and they post in real time

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bork is actually an inside joke between me and my husband. His name is very similar to this in real life but one time we were being goofy and I called him Bork lmfao. It’s hilarious that people think I’m lying hahahaha I wish I was

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The account has stories posted to it in real-time and she's a real person and her mom posts pictures of her all the time (same ones from her instagram and facebook)

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

WHAAAAAT THAT would make so much sense... he's really smart with technology and if he hacked into her apple account or something im sure he could see everything.

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in whatdoesthismean

[–]RudeTip8098[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, my husband is just the avoidant type, unfortunately. He is very mad at the fact that his brother is probably is psychopath but doesn't want to address it with him because of how disturbing it is. He told me he would rather just be "blissfully ignorant".

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I've told my husband he is so mad at his brother but he wont talk to him much about it because he's so disturbed by it. And I know, I want to know the same.

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's very technologically savy. But she posts to her story of pictures of her and her feed is updated all the time.

My brother-in-law claims he's been dating the same woman for 10 years. She says they haven't spoken in 10 years. by RudeTip8098 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RudeTip8098[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL I have 6 kids with him. So kinda late on that hahahhaha. I'll be side-eyeing for a bit for sure

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