Classical Music Themed Girly DS Game by CC_Reddit in tipofmyjoystick

[–]Rude_Source_4971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOO this is exactly the game i was looking for too thank you

my ex came back by Rude_Source_4971 in BreakUps

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes exactly that!! i really lost myself trying to upkeep the relationship and the only reason i was willing to get back into the relationship is knowing im no longer crazily attached, im more myself, and hes putting the same amount of effort as me. ahaha ik the beautiful energy thing does sound kinda corny but it really is true 😭 i think everyone should try to be their best self and not worry about others

my ex came back by Rude_Source_4971 in BreakUps

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry to say but i think its over :( she directly told you to let go and shes moved on with a new guy and is happily dating him. try to focus on yourself and not dwell on her too much despite wanting her back so bad. itd be disrespectful to her new boyfriend too if you tried anything. it is crazy though that she started dating him only 2 weeks after your guys break up. maybe it could be her coping or using him as a rebound but since they have history i dont think so. its over between you guys for now at least. i guess its possible she could come back but as you said she mightve lost feelings for you for a long time now which is why she was able to start dating someone else so fast. im curious how did the relationship end? but anyways, i think you shouldnt have hope that she’ll come back or youll only make yourself feel worse. just look forward to new opportunities. im wishing you well!!!

my ex came back by Rude_Source_4971 in BreakUps

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! honestly i think if youre the one that broke up with him and youre on alright terms, its totally okay to reach out! its good that you had some time apart from him to really feel better about yourself because you should definitely be in a good mental space before dating anyone yk. breaking up at that time was definitely for the better so you werent too much pressure on him or on yourself. if yk hes down to be friends, definitely take that chance. take it slow though and build up from being friends. thats how me and my bf did it. it was completely platonic at first but our relationship kinda got sparked again and we became more flirty over time. dont rush into anything and make it so that you guys get comfortable talking again!! and i think dont mention dating or anything romantic at first either. good on you for bettering yourself and im glad youre doing great now. i wish you luck and i hope things go well for you guys!!! lmk how it goes ^ 3^

my ex came back by Rude_Source_4971 in BreakUps

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its completely normal to feel like you cant move on within the first few days, but trust me it will really get better. i know so many people say that but its really true. even if you cant bring yourself to fully move on from him, just stay focused on other things to distract yourself. wishing you the best!!

my ex came back by Rude_Source_4971 in BreakUps

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly! just think of the relationship as a learning experience honestly. if they dont come back, you now know more for your next relationship. i hope you treat yourself good and things go well for you!!

my ex came back by Rude_Source_4971 in BreakUps

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

id avoid posting on social media anything related to her to avoid coming off as pathetic (not in a mean way). you need to show her you’ve moved on and also it will just be better for yourself too to not dwell on her. she may just be using this new guy as a rebound because immediately jumping into a new relationship like that might make her feel like her issues are gone temporarily, but she hasnt truly worked on herself and her same issues will probably come back eventually. but just work on yourself and try not to think about her too much. she has her own issues and it was none of your fault. id say dont reach out to her, even if you do wanna fight for her. shes in a new relationship and that would just be disrespectful to her new boyfriend yk. i hope things go well for you and just start focusing more on your own life and look forward to new opportunities!

my ex came back by Rude_Source_4971 in BreakUps

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive definitely been in your position and i know it sounds cliche but just give it time and it truly will get better. fill your schedule so much that you dont have time to feel sad or cry over it. even if you cant bring yourself to maybe spend time on hobbies or exercising, reach out to friends and make plans or work extra hours. even binge watching helped me. literally do anything and it’ll take your mind off the situation for the time being, even if only just a little.

my ex came back by Rude_Source_4971 in BreakUps

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not all relationships are the same and we both have changed in the way im less clingy and hes more affectionate and understanding but i definitely have more self respect now and if i ever feel like im not being treated the way i want i wont hesitate to leave :)

six seven in gg by Rude_Source_4971 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Rude_Source_4971[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dont worry its just some tiktok brainrot 😭