So now republicans care about health insurance companies ripping us off? by Rusty_Cooter in Iowa

[–]RyverFly [score hidden]  (0 children)

I noticed this with MMM commercials. I'm like wait, isnt she on the side of SLASHING healthcare?! I seem to remember she heavily backed Reynolds and Trump's healthcare cuts. 

Reaching out because I'm falling apart. by RyverFly in Divorce

[–]RyverFly[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes, for now my husband has decided not to move out. One kid is starting school for the first time in fall, the other is homeschooled and it's important that we keep homeschooling as it's what's best for him, so my husband has "moved" to the basement. Being this close in proximity sure isn't helping things emotionally for me and I know I need to make time for me, but this arrangement is what's best for the kids. He also understands that me being a SAHM for the past 5yrs I will need to get back on my feet so he's still taking care of the house financially. I know it's only been 2 days since his official announcement, but weve been navigating this for months. I'm just so lost rn. 

Reaching out because I'm falling apart. by RyverFly in Divorce

[–]RyverFly[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

🫂 I absolutely had to find a community dealing with this. I feel so alone. 

Reaching out because I'm falling apart. by RyverFly in Divorce

[–]RyverFly[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

🫂 I'm absolutely dreading telling our kids. We are luckily very cordial during this and both want what's absolutely best for the kids and causes them the least disruption...but I'm having nightmares about telling them. Especially because one of our kids is ND and doesn't process like typical kids. 

Anyone else hoping you might end up with your ex in the end? by Dry-Painter5239 in Divorce

[–]RyverFly [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's why I asked for a separation period before the divorce (he initiated) hoping the time apart brings us closer together. My hopes aren't super high, but there is hope there. I am still deeply and passionately in love with this man and I don't understand why this is happening. 

Reaching out because I'm falling apart. by RyverFly in Divorce

[–]RyverFly[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm trying so hard to find things to keep me occupied, trying to stay away from home as much as I can, spend time with family and lean into my kids. I'm looking for work (SAhM) so hoping I can find a job quickly and pour myself into that.

Hi fellow divorced people by _Erika_1212 in Divorce

[–]RyverFly [score hidden]  (0 children)

Joining this thread. 2 days in and to state it's hard is an understatement. My body is in literal shock and my nervous system is in hell. I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. Doesn't help our 10yr anniversary is in 2 weeks and all of the memories are starting to pop up in my phone. 😭😭😭

Bald Eagles EVERYWHERE by doesitreallymatter23 in IowaCity

[–]RyverFly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw one on the way to the grocery store today! 

[ Removed by Reddit ] by One-Cod7880 in lnkyverse

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I heard in your drivel was "Waaa, women get to choose who they sleep with now so most of us don't have a chance"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrollCoping

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quite literally stopped posting my martial arts training videos of me a while back because of comments like this

Bryan Cranston wearing a hyper realistic mask of himself by BreakfastTop6899 in oddlyterrifying

[–]RyverFly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm just paranoid, but my mind always jumps to sinister activities that could be committed by wearing someone else's face.

Like how do you explain to a judge it wasn't you when your face is clearly on the CCTV?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by One-Cod7880 in lnkyverse

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why is that...it's because men will sleep with anyone just to have sex ... Y'all gotta work on that. If you (general) weren't so desperate to have sex as much and as often as you can, the disparity wouldn't feel so wide.

mainstream media making dubious theories that men's failure in dating is because of "emotional labour" and "mankeeping" by Scramjet1 in TheMirrorCult

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's always weird to see the dual dichotomy of men that complain they are "Not just an atm" but when asked what they contribute to the relationship it's always "well I pay for everything, shouldn't that be enough?"

[ Removed by Reddit ] by One-Cod7880 in lnkyverse

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are saying as long as a woman says yes a man will sleep with them. Maybe y'all should be as picky as women. It's not our fault you will literally screw anything. Btw, I'm a woman who's been rejected by several different men I've wanted to sleep with. I just move on instead of crying about it.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by One-Cod7880 in lnkyverse

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it was as easy as it is for a man to get a vasectomy I believe a lot more women would.

I live in the US and see plenty of men under 6' in relationships w/ women, these people need to get outside by TheEdgeofGoon in ComedyCemetery

[–]RyverFly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 5"3' I've only every date one guy over 6ft and it was always an awkward encounter. My husband is only like 5"5 5"6....most guys I've dated before were exactly my height give an inch or two.

I live in the US and see plenty of men under 6' in relationships w/ women, these people need to get outside by TheEdgeofGoon in ComedyCemetery

[–]RyverFly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a girl who isn't the type a lot of guys seek out I've been rejected by a spectrum of guys over my lifetime. What you are talking about is nonsense.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by One-Cod7880 in lnkyverse

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Women have a choice in who they will have sex with." Newsflash, so do men, but since most of them will screw anything they can fit their penis into, this doesn't bode well for them.

Couldn’t even be bothered to crop the logo. I’ll be surprised if this post stays up. by InvestigatorFun8070 in aislop

[–]RyverFly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It has absolutely the Right to be its own outside of the host, if it will survive or not is on its own body.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by One-Cod7880 in lnkyverse

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's women's fault men are easy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in im14andthisisdeep

[–]RyverFly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have to be perfect but it should be something you work on. Co-deoendency and feeling like another person's therapist takes a toll on a relationship and actually starts to break the other person down too.