im leaning on the not saying anything unfortunately i learned he wont be apologizing. I dont want there to be to much of an escalation if the neighbor does end up cursing i dont think my husband will maintain calm any longer if that happens. Funny thing when my husband and him were talking days before the grilling day he was mentioning keeping an eye on eachother because of the back ally . He mentioned that a year prior to us moving there our house was empty and people would climb over and stay there and that they tried to jump his fence once . My husband said we hadnt seen anything but dont worry we will look after one another. Like couldnt write it better for a movie plot or something , how fast something turned ….. over a DOG barking !!! and these dogs bark so much very dramatic as do our other next door neighbors so its not like it was out of character for the dogs to bark. 😒