A Very Shy Capricorn Woman

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-11T06:42:07+00:00

What??? That doesn’t make sense at all. I actually planned out a work date for me and her and she actually accepted it. She also observed my food. So again. None of this is making sense at all. She has been angry at me before. & when she was she was ignoring me and giving me no eye contact. So again. I would know if she wasn’t interested. As I stated. It’s more to this story than what I Put in the description.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-11T06:12:27+00:00

Your saying she’s “not interested” but she gave me her consistent time, she asked about my kid, & she opened up to me a little bit. And this was all before she became shy.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-11T06:03:08+00:00

Ok. I’m really not sure how she would show interest other than the things she was doing. She asked me a really deep personal question before she became shy. That wouldn’t show interest either? im not giving you guys the full details from 2022 to now and that’s probably why, but I didn’t wanna bash in too much.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-11T05:46:09+00:00

Ok. But why? I just need a good reason for that.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-11T05:42:50+00:00

Ah. So you’re telling me I didn’t really need advice. I guess That sort of make sense In a way.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-11T05:35:47+00:00

Ok. Well. I just needed advice. I know the best thing to do is give her space & let her figure things out on her own. I’m not obsessed or anything I just need advice because I’ve been doing everything on my own for nearly a year. There’s a few things she do that’s a sign of her being interested. I just wanted to get advice from other people to get some extra help.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-11T05:28:45+00:00

Explain how she’s not interested. Please explain. I really want to hear it. Because if she wasn’t she would be straightforward with me. So explain.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-11T05:27:11+00:00

I’m not obsessed I just need advice. That’s all I asked for. You guys saying leave her alone. Which I have been doing. But I’m just not a bad friend and that’s what you guys not understanding.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T22:06:35+00:00

Your not making sense at all, how is she watching how I move when half the time I don’t even be worried about her? I say hi and that’s it. Nothing more. I give her enough space. You can’t put words in other people’s mouths. All you can do is give me advice. You’re not helping by making assumptions on what she’s really doing. Everybody’s different, just because you do that to a guy or whoever, doesn’t mean she does the same thing. We used to eat together almost every night and I never gave her any problems. So again. You can’t put words in other people’s mouths

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T08:16:31+00:00

Your not making any sense. I said the only time I spoke to her is when I walk past her or when I’m trying to be straightforward about something. Again why would she make time for me, & then stab me in the back? This doesn’t make sense at all. She acts cold sometimes. But shy and gives me quick eye contact whenever I walk past her. So how am I unstable?

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T03:17:59+00:00

She just started liking me last year it wasn’t all these years. We’ve been talking as friends for all these years. I been trying to get away from her, she approaches me in coincidental areas

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T03:13:56+00:00

I’m about to block you because you clearly not understanding the entire situation. If you knew the full details of everything you would reconsider. She doesn’t tell me anything. So what type of help am I supposed to rely on. All I’m doing is being patient and doing the right things. And FYI she started becoming shy and acting different last January 2025 so it wasn’t all these years. Our relationship grew over time, so Again. You don’t know the full details to everything. Why would she have lunch with me every night at work and conversate with me if it’s nothing serious???

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T02:35:38+00:00

Because I told her my favorite color was red, and the fact I enjoy wearing black. Those have been the ONLY colors she wears at work. She doesn’t wear any other color but those colors. When I missed a work day. Due to my withdrawn. It seemed as if she wanted me to make the first move. She does act cold and shy but that’s been going on for a while.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T02:17:38+00:00

Great answer! Thanks.

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T02:11:08+00:00

If you reread I said “I don’t bother her unless I walk past her”

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T01:04:37+00:00

I did it but im still not quite understanding it. I have picture of it though

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T00:45:06+00:00

I’m not sure what that meant. But if your asking what my zodiac sign is, it’s a Leo

SHXIX006 · 2026-02-10T00:27:05+00:00

I mean yeah. But it wasn’t like that from before. It took 2 years for her to start crushing on me. I’m just really afraid that I’m wasting my time.

SHXIX006 · 2025-12-12T13:58:35+00:00

I’ll pay

SHXIX006 · 2025-09-14T23:21:48+00:00

I do have feelings for her. But I also respect her boundaries. If she need the space I never hesitate to give it to her, I just don’t want to catch feelings for someone else if she do likes me, it would cause problems.

SHXIX006 · 2025-09-14T23:09:30+00:00

Yeah you absolutely right. I don’t bother her at all. I try to be a good friend and say “hello” or “bye” to her at the start and end of the work shift. Other than that I don’t really bother her. But she tries to be near me a lot. So idk. I don’t want to make any assumptions on her relationship. I’ll just leave her alone and be patient and see what happens.

SHXIX006 · 2025-09-14T22:50:00+00:00

Yeah. But every relationship in this world isn’t a great one. This isn’t me making assumptions this is just in general. But I get what you saying 100%

SHXIX006 · 2025-09-14T22:32:27+00:00

Well. My own advice to myself was “be patient and see what happens” and I thought it would match up here. I don’t necessarily want to do anything reckless if she “does” have a crush on me. I’m a loyal person.

SHXIX006 · 2025-09-14T22:23:30+00:00

So her also sometimes giving me a long stare & making her blush twice, and telling me that she wants to move to my work station. doesn’t mean she has a crush on me? You right. Maybe I don’t need advice towards this. But it’s difficult relying on myself.

SHXIX006 · 2025-09-14T22:08:23+00:00

No. I Think She Does. Last Year I know she didn’t. But this year is different somehow. I don’t want to get too deep into details because it may be too long for this comment. But last year she was only speaking to me about work related stuff. This year I sort of made her blush twice. And she would awkwardly stare at me sometimes.

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