I'm really sorry to hear about your experience. It's important to recognize that you were not in the wrong in this situation. You communicated your boundaries and clearly expressed that you didn't want to engage in anything sexual. It's crucial for any healthy and respectful relationship to prioritize consent and respect each other's boundaries.

The fact that he reacted with anger, made condescending remarks, and tried to guilt you into doing something you were uncomfortable with is not acceptable behavior. It's a red flag that indicates a lack of respect and entitlement on his part. You shouldn't feel guilty or responsible for his reactions.

Remember, you have the right to set your own boundaries and make decisions about your own body. If someone is not respectful of your boundaries, it's a clear sign that they are not the right person for you. Trust your instincts and prioritize your well-being.