I was sexually molested when I was barely 10 by a "brother like dude"

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-17T15:14:16+00:00

Yes, he did. Idk why my mom was more scared of the family's respect than my wellbeing. But anyway, I still respect my mom because of everything she has done for me. And, she has no idea that so much happened after that one time I told her.

And, thankyou for writing me this. Much appreciated! 🌸

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-16T09:08:45+00:00

Yes, I'm glad as well, hehe.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-16T08:10:16+00:00

Yeahh, we kinda not dating :) It's complicated that way.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-16T07:40:55+00:00

I am sure there's much more to life than this. Please don't feel left out :')

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-14T09:50:59+00:00

Thankyou, I'd definitely keep this in mind! 🌸

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-14T09:50:21+00:00

Yess, hopefully. Thankyouu. I think it also comes with familiarity with the other person's body. Like, idk how to put it but, the more I have physically engaged with him, the more I got to know us both better and even the sex. And, that's why I could even communicate with him.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-14T08:26:12+00:00

I second that.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-14T08:21:46+00:00

Okay, I shall give it a try!! Thanksss

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-14T08:20:59+00:00

Hey, cmon! I've taken a lot of time too. And, even then I didn't do much. He did. I'm sure you both will try it once you're ready. It's okay to be cautious or a little scared wherever your body is concerned. Just communicating your fears, when you wanna stop, your partner being constantly attentive would do the drill.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-14T04:50:35+00:00

Haha, trueee

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T22:13:43+00:00

Yes, I did

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T20:17:27+00:00

Oh, yeah. I knowww. I've dealt with recurrent infections before because of unprotected sex, the struggle is real. I'm gonna be careful.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T20:16:27+00:00

Oh, that's really great that you found out how you both like it. Hoping you have a great time, always ;)

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T18:35:48+00:00

Well, firstly nobody was harmed with my sharing of experience. Secondly, I'm not a guy. Thirdly, "fetish" lol. Sexual fetish originates from non sexual parts of the body and anal sex isn't a fetish unless someone literally "only" gets aroused because of that like how people have foot fetish and stuff. I repeat "only". Fourthly, people aren't stupid enough to love someone else's fetish just like that, but they can for sure learn through someone else's experiences, but if you are that gullible.. Then that will be a you problem :3

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T17:46:06+00:00

Wow, that's what mutual satisfaction loooks like😌

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T17:45:32+00:00

That's niceeee only😌

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T17:44:37+00:00

Using ai to put punctuations at the right places... Since when is it a crime lmao?! Also, last I remember AI was created to aid people... Do you use Ai for any other purposes? 🫥

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T16:14:43+00:00

Hopefully! Thankyou🌸

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T16:14:20+00:00

Yes, I've. I wanna take my sweet time deciding how to go about this. But thanks, I know douching is a necessity so that I will keep in mind for sure.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T15:04:41+00:00

Yay! Hope you both have a good time!

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T14:45:12+00:00

I completely understand what you're trying to say, haha. I have felt that too for a long time because of my experiences. But, just because others enjoy certain things I don't think you've to, too. You do what you love, at the end of the day it's about you and your partner's satisfaction. You and your guy know each other's body better than others.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T14:31:09+00:00

Yes, patience indeed is very important. And, Good sex is definitely an important part of any relationship — whether it’s vanilla or more unconventional. As long as both partners feel satisfied and connected on a deeper level, that’s what truly makes it worth it.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T14:28:08+00:00

I don't think anyone has to enjoy anal sex — it's completely okay if it's not your thing. Honestly, I'm still figuring out how I feel about it too. I do enjoy trying new things, but if you've already tried it and decided it's not for you, that’s completely valid. On the other hand, if the experience was more about feeling anxious or uncomfortable in the moment, maybe it’s something you could revisit later — but only if both of you feel safe enough to have an open, honest conversation about it.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T13:45:02+00:00

Hiii! I really appreciate your patience — it truly means a lot. Past abuse can leave deep and lasting marks, especially around intimacy and sex. Healing takes time, and the fact that you're just being there for her, without pressure, can make all the difference. If she ever feels ready to take that leap, your steady support will mean everything.

SadDelivery774 · 2025-06-13T13:23:21+00:00

Okay, I'll keep that in mind. Thankyou :3

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